primer cups are made of brass, but most are nickelplated to give it the silver color. Remington, however, has long kept it unplated, and recently, Winchester has done the same. It is normal to see minor primer dimpling when cycling the bolt, no big deal. Titanium FP for the AR are a nice scam--the tips wear faster then steel, cost ALOT more, and unlike bolt guns, doesn't change the lock time much as the slowest part in the action is due to the parts in the lower receiver (ie the hammer, etc). Bolt guns don't generally use a hammer, and a titanium FP in a striker type mechanism can be slightly faster. If the Ti FP actually does decrease lock time or enhance function, I'd think you would see the serious target shooters, etc. use it--well, they don't.
As the folks have already mentioned, just keep the muzzle safe when you cycle the mag just in case, and save your money with the standard FP.