What you need is low temperature silver solder. You don't need to get the metal red hot, just hot enough to get the solder to flow and bond. You also need a good flux. You can wet the portion you want soldered. Apply flux, then heat and then the solder. Use a solder brush to whisk off the excess solder. Join the two parts and apply heat. When the metal reaches the correct temp, the solder will flow.This is called "sweating a joint. Or flux and apply heat. when metal is at correct heat the solder will flow into the joint by capillary action. Try you technique on some scrap metal until you get the hang of it. It really is quite easy. YOu can get the correct solder and flux at Brownell's. What you don't want to do is overheat the metal and burn the flux. The purpose of the flux is to keep the surface of the metal from oxidizing and preventing a good joint. You only need a propane torch to do this. I've silver soldered many things with just a propane torch. Hope this helps.