I have an Aimpoint, an Eotech (N battery one, NV capable), and a Trij TA01NSN. I like them all, and I also like open sights. I also used to have a Trij Reflex which was good and useable but I did not really like the slightly offset visual field, the relatively dark background, and the "washout" effect in certain bright light situations.
There is no "universal sight." Maybe the large-aperature A2 rear sight and a blaze-orange painted front post is the best true "universal sight." Works from 3 feet to infinity.
My "fantasy sight" would be a TA31 w/donut reticle but in 1.5x or 2x. What I sometimes dislike about my TA01NSN and the TA31's is that the 4x is a bit too strong for really close-up use. I hate the blurriness of a too-much-magnification optic on close targets. Some of your most important shots are close ones. But I love the reticle and no-battery feature of the TA31, and the overall high quality. It would also be nice to have the TA01NSN's backup sights on top of a TA31, but I hate sights where I have to lift my face off the stock, losing a cheekweld.
Alternatively, if an Eotech was made in 1.5x that used a red fiber-optic instead of batteries to power the lighted reticle, that would really appeal to me too.
If I had to use only one? Hmm. Might have to be an Eotech.
But all of the sights mentioned above are good, as are others not covered. It's really all a matter pf taste. Try as many as you can, in actual shooting conditions, as possible, before you commit.
Ted