The Arms40 is specifically designed so that it will pop back up if knocked down. I personally wouldn't want one that locked up. I have the Arms40 adn have had no problems with it ever not being ready for use.
As to the optics, I love the Trijicon stuff, but didn't have the money for it. I went with the aimpoint and I don't think you would be dissapointed. As to Green0's comment about the front sight post, I'm not sure where that comes from. The front post doesn't bother me at all with my aimpoint, in fact it made zeroing the aimpoint very easy as I just put the dot on top of the front post. It kind of has to be there so you can cowitness anway.
I'm definately not knocking the Eotech, just never used one.
All depends on what you like. Best bet is to try out each one if you can, but that is not always pratical.
Good luck with your decision!