They are all great. I have used more than a few of them, and will get one sooner or later. Personally, I will be getting the 2x with the red trianlge. I like the 2x over the 1.5x ACOGs for the greater magnification, while maintaining good eye relief and field of view. The 3x is also great, but does have shorter eye reilef and field of view. Seriously, any of them are great, I just think I would want the 2x for myself.
I find the triangle to be the best and most useful of all the Comp ACOG reticles. Crosshair is a fine reticle and good for accuracy, but it will be the slowest to use in CQB. The dot is quick, but lacks a precise aiming point. The Triangle is just as quick as the dot, but you can use the sharp apex for accurate shots.
I have found the red to be brighter and a better contrast to the amber. Other board members disagree and feel the amber is brighter. If you have the chance, try to see an ACOG with both a red and amber reticle. Find out which ones appears easier for you to use. Good luck, and seriously... there really is no bad choice!