Well, let me make a few observations/assumptions....
IF your 45 ACP rounds fit, you must have used hollow points or a flat point bullet. Normal "ball" is too long and will not fit. To fit in an unmodified Sten, I tried Winchester ammo (flat point FMJ).
The only person I know that did a Colt pattern 45 ACP upper (or is working on one) is Kurt of Kurt's Kustom. He has his own area in the Industry section. Last I knew, he was tinkering w/ one. So far, he is the only Colt pattern 45 upper I know of. You might want to email/contact him if he is making the Colt pattern 45 upper or still in RnD.
I have ASA 9mm set up. I'm hoping that soon, a Colt pattern 45 will show to the market since the Cav Arms Mk II lowers (which can use grease gun mags) is about to enter the market. But no one has made one commercially yet (Kurt would be considered a custom, I think).
I'm currently gathering parts to get a 357 Sig upper together. Kurt has made them in Colt pattern and the round will fit in Sten mags. He can open a 9mm bolt up to taket the 40/357 Sig rim and re-chamber a 9mm barrel to 357 Sig.