Sounds to me like you guyz have other problems. and BTW just get a better hiding spot  it works for me[beer].

It doesn't sound to me like you are ready for marriage...   It isn't *your* money.  You are supposed to be partners, but instead, you think of her as your child or something....

Don't get me wrong, you make her sound like a lazy harpy, but there are deep problems on both sides of the fence.   Your marriage will never work as long as you think of her as a future ex-Mrs M4Madness.

What's the deal with the bankruptcy thing anyway?  Is that a way to dodge alimony?

Well as Jerry Reed once sang

Why could I have not just learned to cook.

Or as I say compared to getting married Call Girls begin to make some sense.  

I am lucky I am not married and I don’t think I will ever get married, Freedom comes first.