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Posted: 1/11/2006 8:19:16 PM EDT

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Posted: 1/11/2006 8:20:56 PM EDT

[#1]

Judging from your posts on here yes, get a vasectomy first.

Do it for the children.

Posted: 1/11/2006 8:21:19 PM EDT

[#2]

NO.

If you croak she gets everything.

Also a year is a long time for a woman to sit around for you. She may cheat and get things out of hand.

Havent you learned anything about relationships from this site?

If she really loves you she will wait for you to get back. Why the hurry? You are only 22.

Posted: 1/11/2006 8:21:21 PM EDT

[#3]

Quoted:
Judging from your posts on here yes, get a vasectomy first.

Do it for the children.

+1

Posted: 1/11/2006 8:23:03 PM EDT

[#4]

At 22? fuck no,

Posted: 1/11/2006 8:23:42 PM EDT

[#5]

If you have to "think" about it...don't do it.

Try communication. If you are really serious and she loves you back, she'll wait if she is mature enough for marriage. If she's not mature enough to wait, then she's not mature enough to get married.

I was in a similar situation. I was going to flight school at Fort Rucker and wanted to take my girlfriend that I had just met not too long before that. But I KNEW I wanted to marry her. From our first date, I said to myself, "I could marry this one". She wasn't mature enough at the point when I actually left for flight school, but she grew up pretty fast and accepted it. We are still together after 22 years.

Posted: 1/11/2006 8:24:09 PM EDT

[#6]

[red/]Dumbass![red/]

Posted: 1/11/2006 8:24:16 PM EDT

[#7]

When you start asking ARFCOM whether you should get married, its time to take a step back, turn the computer off, and go outside for a while. A VERY long while.

Posted: 1/11/2006 8:24:31 PM EDT

[#8]

My opinion, Wait. If she waits for you and stays true, than you know you picked a winner. I know you are thinking that if you lose her you will never feel this way again about another woman. That is simply not true.

You will change a lot in that year, so will she. Wait and see if things are the same, or better when you return.

Again, IMHO...

Eric

Posted: 1/11/2006 8:27:06 PM EDT

[#9]

Run Forrest, RUN!!!!

J/K

Seriously, this is the wrong place to ask. You may get one or two real serious responses. I would say at your age and with you deploying, chances are not very good that it will work out. However, no two people are alike and no two situations are alike. Consider any good advice you may get, weigh the odds according to what YOU know, and try to make the best decision you can, then stick with it. No matter what you decide, it is you who must live with the consequences, either way.

JMHO.

Posted: 1/11/2006 8:27:26 PM EDT

[#10]

If you have to ask us, you shouldn't.

If you are doing it to keep her "faithful" during an absence, you REALLY shouldn't. Bad juju, dude.

Posted: 1/11/2006 8:27:50 PM EDT

[#11]

Quoted:
Judging from your posts on here yes, get a vasectomy first.

Do it for the children.

Posted: 1/11/2006 8:28:46 PM EDT

[#12]

Don't. When you're ready to get married, you will.

Posted: 1/11/2006 8:31:16 PM EDT

[#13]

Quoted:
I cannot expect a woman to wait around for me for a year without committing to marry her

A ring on her finger won't make the difference of her waiting a year for you.

Posted: 1/11/2006 8:32:36 PM EDT

[#14]

create a troll account and have him marry her.

Posted: 1/11/2006 8:38:37 PM EDT

[#15]

If she loves you as much as you love her, then she will be glad to wait another year.

Posted: 1/11/2006 8:40:32 PM EDT

[#16]

No.

Posted: 1/11/2006 8:44:08 PM EDT

[#17]

Yes, marry her.

<----------enjoys reading the disasterous divorce threads.

Posted: 1/11/2006 8:47:30 PM EDT

[#18]

Depends.

Do you EVER want pussy again in your life? A Blow Job?

Then Stay single.

Q: Why does a woman smile on her wedding day????

A: She knows she's given her last blowjob.

SG

Posted: 1/11/2006 8:47:57 PM EDT

[#19]

Seriously, what is the upside? Why sign away your rights and property? Marriage has nothing to do with love and everything to do with money.

Posted: 1/11/2006 8:49:16 PM EDT

[#20]

No.

Posted: 1/11/2006 9:05:30 PM EDT

[#21]

your 22 you have your whole life ahead of you so I say no.

and for the record im 24.

Posted: 1/11/2006 9:09:47 PM EDT

[#22]

We need a pic.

Posted: 1/11/2006 9:11:40 PM EDT

[#23]

You only live once!

Posted: 1/11/2006 9:18:13 PM EDT

[#24]

Yeah just let her go. You are still young. You can find another girl. Besides she will cheat on you if you leave for a year, married or not.

Posted: 1/11/2006 9:23:21 PM EDT

[#25]

Uh, I was in a very similar situation a year ago when I was 22 and I found the woman that I wanted to marry. Too bad she had to suck all that dick down in Central America. Wrong again!

Posted: 1/11/2006 9:27:52 PM EDT

[#26]

DON"T DO IT!!! You'll be better to wait and see if she is still there when you get back. Who the hell knows what she is up to when you take off.

Posted: 1/11/2006 9:41:24 PM EDT

[#27]

Quoted:
What do you think, I have found a woman I love and in late 2006 I will be leaving for a while, I am thinking that before I leave I have to make a decision I cannot expect a woman to wait around for me for a year without committing to marry her?

I am pretty young 22 but I really think I love this lady??????????????

Never get married until you learn to use proper puncuation

Posted: 1/12/2006 12:22:29 AM EDT

[#28]

Quoted:
When you start asking ARFCOM whether you should get married, its time to take a step back, turn the computer off, and go outside for a while. A VERY long while.

LOL. +2,000...

Posted: 1/12/2006 12:42:08 AM EDT

[#29]

STUDY THE MOTHER!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Its the best indication of what is instore for you

Posted: 1/12/2006 12:55:50 AM EDT

[#30]

If you need to ask, the answer is NO.

Posted: 1/12/2006 1:00:38 AM EDT

[#31]

I remember alot of your old posts about "girls"....

You shouldnt.

Posted: 1/12/2006 1:54:41 AM EDT

[#32]

No.

Posted: 1/12/2006 2:48:13 AM EDT

[#33]

Quoted:
If you have to "think" about it...don't do it.

+1

Posted: 1/12/2006 2:56:46 AM EDT

[#34]

Big NOOOOOOOOOOO

Posted: 1/12/2006 3:33:22 AM EDT

[#35]

Quoted:
Quoted:
I cannot expect a woman to wait around for me for a year without committing to marry her

A ring on her finger won't make the difference of her waiting a year for you.

Best advice you'll get.

Posted: 1/12/2006 3:57:41 AM EDT

[#36]

No you are young, and what makes you think she will wait if you are married? You seem unsure that she would wait if you are not married. If the woman will not wait without the ring, why in the hell would you think she will WITH the ring.

If it is true love and you are really for each other don't rush into anything. If you rush you will loose out big time. It is easier to loose a GF than a Wife.

Frankly you should concentrate on setting yourself up financially BEFORE thinking about getting a wife.

Posted: 1/12/2006 4:14:14 AM EDT

[#37]

Quoted:
What do you think, I have found a woman I love and in late 2006 I will be leaving for a while, I am thinking that before I leave I have to make a decision I cannot expect a woman to wait around for me for a year without committing to marry her?

I am pretty young 22 but I really think I love this lady??????????????

If she loves you she will wait. It is better for her to wait on a boyfriend and mess up and cheat/leave him/whatever than a husband. Being married makes it a LOT more complicated to break up dating makes it a phone call to break up and you start over instantly.

If she loves you she will wait. If she does, she may be worth marrying.

GR

Posted: 1/12/2006 4:20:20 AM EDT

[#38]

Well,.........If I were "You" I would.

J/K Mirage is a big step.

Posted: 1/12/2006 4:25:35 AM EDT

[#39]

If your basing your choice on soley on what we tell you, defiently don't marry her.

Posted: 1/12/2006 4:26:22 AM EDT

[#40]

If you have to ask that question - NO

Posted: 1/12/2006 4:31:12 AM EDT

[#41]

... Not yet

... I you both really love each other, the bond will stand the test of time. Shoot for marriage only after a good year of courtship. As it stands now, you probably haven't seen her with her "hair down" yet. Get to really know her before proposing. Do a background and credit check. Get some character references - I'm serious.

Posted: 1/12/2006 4:31:54 AM EDT

[#42]

That woman will wait for many years if you and her are mature enough AND if y'all are right for each other.

I suggest that you do not get married at this time.

CMOS

Posted: 1/12/2006 5:19:03 AM EDT

[#43]

Temptation is a very strong influence. A year is a long time considering the ages of you two. Marriage is a huge commitment,requiring a lot of work and communication. It only takes a second to remove a ring. It is impossible to know how she will react, given the absolute fact that temptation will surround her. At first she will shrug it off because she would be newly married, but as time goes on she will become more and more suseptible to the advances of others. When you return, ask people that know her whether or not she has dated anyone else etc. Remember....You will be gone for a year, and whether or not she loves you will not change a " bad choice" she may have made while you were gone. I found out that after I married my ex, she had an affair on me while I was in Parris Island. Had I checked with people before I married her,I would have kicked her to the curb.Protect yourself!

Posted: 1/12/2006 5:24:33 AM EDT

[#44]

Quoted:
What do you think, I have found a woman I love and in late 2006 I will be leaving for a while, I am thinking that before I leave I have to make a decision I cannot expect a woman to wait around for me for a year without committing to marry her?

I am pretty young 22 but I really think I love this lady??????????????

Late 06?? Dood, PLEASE let me borrow that crystal ball of yours

Posted: 1/12/2006 5:24:38 AM EDT

[#45]

Don't ask us. That is a situation where you need to talk to your family and your priest/preacher/whatever you have. Ask people that really know the both of you. Don't ask a bunch of opinionated people that don't really know you as well as needed for such advice. Myself included.