Means always vigilant, it's something I'm going to remember from now on. I had a wake up call last evening. The wife had gone out w/ her friends & it was just me & the kids (4&6) , I changed out of my work chlothes & put my gun out of reach in the bedroom & went to fix dinner for the munchkins. After dinner I layed up on the couch & drifted off .................then I hear footsteps in the gravel outside moving toward my house rapidly, I spring up & see this scumb bag INSIDE my fenced yard hiding ! The scumb bag looked about 55'ish , I reach for my gun, nope try again, shit I put it on the end table 'cause it was diggin' in my back, wrong again ! WTF !!!!! It's in the MFing bedroom ! A quick scan of the livingroom revealed asshole was closer to my kids than I was from my gun ( this is where the knot in the pit of your stomach engulfs you & you are fully aware that you have just officially fucking blew it ! ) . I have the oldest take her sister to the bathroom & lock the door as I'm heading out the door. I confront the dirtbag & it de escelates from there & he leaves. He was indeed about 55, no front teeth & stinking awful bad ..................
I got lucky, getting caught w/ my pants down didn't cost me anything this time out, there won't be a next time.
Please do take a second & do a complacency check.