gotta love arfcom, the poster asks for recomendations of cruisers, and people start recommending standards and sportbikes
If I'm reading your post correctly, you want something that's fun to tool around on in town, and something that has enough juice and comfort to take you and the ole lady on a 200 mile ride, so my recomendations are going to be based on such.
I know one poster here recently bought a Honda VTX 1300. I thought at first that it looked like a good bike, but the HP ratings on it are sadly lacking for such a large engine. I would be concerned that it wouldn't be fun in town, and that it wouldn't have the getupandgo you'd want with a passenger. If I'm wrong then it might not be a bad choice. You would definately want to replace the seat though for long periods of two-up riding.
If you can find a Yamaha Road Star Warrior used in your price range, I'd jump on that. It's got gobs of power, and with a seat change would have no trouble toting you and your wife around. It is a large/wide bike though and could be intimidating depending on how long you've been out of riding. Yamaha also makes the V-star 1100 line that is under $10k new, and should be able to tote a passenger just fine.
Then you have the Kawasaki Vulcan 1600 Classic, which is right around $10k and should have some good juice to get you and your bride moving. I prefer the 1600 Mean Streak in the looks department, but you'd definately need a new seat.
If your wife will be doing much riding with you at all, take her along and have her sit on the passenger seat. If she's uncomfortable it could mean the difference between you enjoying riding and hating it. And don't forget
www.corbin.com for the very best and most comfortable in aftermarket seats. Look at this number they make for the Yamaha Warrior, and tell me the ole lady wouldn't be comfortable on it. It's $600 (with the backrests an additional $200/ea) but if you want to stay married and happy riding it's well worth it.