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HONOLULU (HawaiiNewsNow) - Bo Frank and his partner Thomas Luna were there when little Sakoda Frank was born six years ago. They adopted the baby boy and raised him as their own. But last Christmas, Sakoda declared that she was a girl. "From the time she was two to four, that's all I heard: 'I wish I was a girl, I wish I was a girl,'" said father Bo Frank. "And then when I was five, I became a girl!" exclaimed Sakoda, sitting in Frank's lap. "She said, 'Dad, I am a girl,'" Frank continued. "And at this point, you know -- stuff got real." At first, it was a difficult situation for her parents, even though they say there were signs as Sakoda grew older. "We'd hand her a football. She'd get rid of it and go get a doll," said Frank. "We'd give her Spider Man or Iron Man, and she'd go to Hello Kitty. You know, she always gravitated to those kinds of things, so it wasn't that big of a surprise." Even though it wasn't that big of a surprise, Frank said, "You have hopes and dreams for your child, and then when something like that comes about, all these worries pop into your head. Is she going to be safe? Yeah, she's safe when she's with us. But when she's not with us, are people going to tease her? Are they going to pick on her? Are they going to hurt her?" So far, the family members say they've been very lucky. Her older brother has accepted the change, and they've received support from their friends and her school, which allows her to use the girls restroom. But how does a young child make such a decision? "I tell them it's not a decision," Frank responded. "That's who they are, and they know who they are." Frank and Luna recently stepped down as cheerleading coaches at Radford High School after winning eleven straight state titles so that they could focus on their family. They're also pleased that the state Department of Education is working on a policy for transgender students. Frank said most people don't know the difference between sex and gender. "Sex is anatomically and biologically what makes you male or female," he said. Gender is more like social, psychological and emotional characteristics that are influenced by society." Six-year-old Sakoda said she is transgender. When asked what that means, she replied, "Where a girl feels like a boy and a boy feels like a girl." "Pretty good definition," said Frank. Frank said the family decided to go public after the mass shooting in Orlando that killed 49 people at a nightclub. "The whole Orlando thing just brought stuff into perspective for us, you know? The community faces a lot of challenges, and by sharing our story I think we can help other people with transgender children." There are still many worries ahead as she grows up, but the family said it is prepared. "It was hard. It was hard," said Frank. "But seeing how happy she is, getting to wear that dress she always wanted, or putting up her hair with the bow -- I mean all that worry just goes away." |
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I want off this fucking planet.
[ETA] On second thought, it's not I that needs to leave the planet... |
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Call me old fashioned.
You aren't qualified to make this call for yourself until you hit puberty. One old un-pc man's opinion. |
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When I was a kid, the kid didn't tell the parent how the world ran....And parents didn't encourage them to do so. Ok Johnny you want to do girl stuff fine, but you're a boy. Use the boys room! Until they go through puberty discourage the behavior. Many go through phases when they want to be something else or someone else. To me this is child abuse at this age.
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Untreated mental illness is sad.
Untreated mental illness that's glamorized and normalized and promoted is worse. |
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Call me old fashioned. You aren't qualified to make this call for yourself until you hit puberty. One old un-pc man's opinion. These. Hey, let's allow queer "marriage", and let the two who CANNOT reproduce adopt children into their unnatural relationship. It's not like anyone besides the two queers are in any way effected by it... |
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Dysfunctional family, dysfunctional child.
Not too damn hard to figure out. |
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Parents have victimized themselves with confirmation bias of their own bullshit opinions.
They have victimized their kid as well. Once they approve the "crossing over": surgery for their kid, the abuse will be devastating. Fucking kid doesn't even have a sexual identity yet, and these fucking morons are assigning all sorts of adult logic to it (projecting their perverse desire that their kid will (a) "be just like them" and (b) allowing them some popularity in their little community). It's better than being able to brag that little Jimmy won the spelling bee. It's like me saying that my dog staring off into space is proof he's contemplating the existence of God. Morons. |
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"We'd hand her a football. She'd get rid of it and go get a doll," said Frank. "We'd give her Spider Man or Iron Man, and she'd go to Hello Kitty. You know, she always gravitated to those kinds of things, so it wasn't that big of a surprise." View Quote It's amazing how all the "gendered toys" thing the left screams about gets thrown out the window so quickly. Also that this is what some people think "makes you a girl". |
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It's amazing how all the "gendered toys" thing the left screams about gets thrown out the window so quickly. Also that this is what some people think "makes you a girl". View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
"We'd hand her a football. She'd get rid of it and go get a doll," said Frank. "We'd give her Spider Man or Iron Man, and she'd go to Hello Kitty. You know, she always gravitated to those kinds of things, so it wasn't that big of a surprise." It's amazing how all the "gendered toys" thing the left screams about gets thrown out the window so quickly. Also that this is what some people think "makes you a girl". Makes you wonder where they're getting these Hello Kitty stuff and dolls around the house in the first place if it's an all-male household. |
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Why is every kid that lies girly things a tranny now? Can't they just be a fag?
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they should be charged with Child Abuse.
the American Academy of Pediatricians concurs. |
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I wish it wasn't so.
Parents that live vicariously is nothing new. Unfortunately , these days the stakes are higher. These people that think they are so forward thinking, progressive , and enlightened. Simply do not know what they are in for. They have championed a future generation of sociopathic narcissists. Some things can't be undone overnight. I'm sorry, but this will hurt. A lot.... One of these days you will look upon the disaster that stands in front of you and know, that you are to blame. Yayyyy diversity |
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Liberalism is where a man can say he's a woman and you don't question it. But a terrorist can declare himself to be a member of ISIS and you need to study and question his real, true motivation. |
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I wish it wasn't so. Parents that live vicariously is nothing new. Unfortunately , these days the stakes are higher. These people that think they are so forward thinking, progressive , and enlightened. Simply do not know what they are in for. They have championed a future generation of sociopathic narcissists. Some things can't be undone overnight. I'm sorry, but this will hurt. A lot.... One of these days you will look upon the disaster that stands in front of you and know, that you are to blame. Yayyyy diversity View Quote Oh, the "parents" know exactly what they're doing. It's two guys. I'm positive the kid didn't decide this on his own. |
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Who's the boy's original parents, and what issues with them? Boy must have had issues to begin with, including abandonment by parents and stuck with two gay men.
Fine being gay but to raise a family messes the kids up |
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Weren't there two previous cases, very similar, where the parents were gay activists?
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Quoted: Parents have victimized themselves with confirmation bias of their own bullshit opinions. They have victimized their kid as well. Once they approve the "crossing over": surgery for their kid, the abuse will be devastating. Fucking kid doesn't even have a sexual identity yet, and these fucking morons are assigning all sorts of adult logic to it (projecting their perverse desire that their kid will (a) "be just like them" and (b) allowing them some popularity in their little community). It's better than being able to brag that little Jimmy won the spelling bee. It's like me saying that my dog staring off into space is proof he's contemplating the existence of God. Morons. View Quote |
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Liberalism is where a man can say he's a woman and you don't question it. But a terrorist can declare himself to be a member of ISIS and you need to study and question his real, true motivation. That's amazing. QFT! I can't take credit for it. I stole it. |
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Call me old fashioned. You aren't qualified to make this call for yourself until you hit puberty. One old un-pc man's opinion. View Quote anyone who makes that call is unqualified for sanity.... seriously old un-pc man's opinion and the nation's for over 200 yrs until about 30 yrs ago... |
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When the gay marriage thing came up people on this site fell all over each other to say how it was no big deal. The lies and bullshit in this country keep piling higher and higher. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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Shit's fucked up. When the gay marriage thing came up people on this site fell all over each other to say how it was no big deal. The lies and bullshit in this country keep piling higher and higher. Yup. And, you cannot live on bullshit forever. Sooner or later, the bill comes due... |
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My rustic cabin in a very secluded setting dream is sounding better and better every day.
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Clearly he wanted to grow up to be a girl just like his 2 daddies.
God help us. |
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