Actually the new Grand Master of Masons in the State of New York has decreed that he believes the old practice of requiring a prospective member to ask first to be archaic.
Fifty years ago everybody was familiar with the various fraternal orders... Masons, Knights of Pithias, Knights of Columbus, Moose, Elks, Hibernians, Kiwanis, Rotary... etc. Today, far fewer people do. Numbers have declined because we have been our own worst enemy in terms of marketing. By nature we don't take credit for much of our good work... i.e. Shriner's Hospitals (yes, ALL Shriners must first become Masons).
Now we do a soft sell, and if someone doesn't ask the magic question, "How do I become a Mason" (which was what we had to hear before we discussed joining with them) we can now say..., "Hey, have you ever thought about becoming a Mason?"
Anyway, other states have given these Grand Master's classes with much success. New York has decided to give it a try. Hope to see some of you there... *cough cough* Avilas *cough cough* SP10 *cough cough* Aimless and Green18 *cough cough* Helldog40 *cough cough* Balzac72 *cough cough* Wave *cough cough* Hoplite *cough cough* RogerDodger *cough cough* Transam *cough cough* HKGunnr *cough cough* and all the rest of you NY rogues!