Some of the jobs you listed, PJ, FAC, SERE instructor and several other jobs include time away from home. If you want to stay home with the wife, you might want to consider some other career. SERE guys seemed to spend a week at a time up in the mountains when classes were running. PJ's kept pretty busy too. Our weather folks couldn't not predict rain in a thunderstorm. Security Forces is basically the same as a mall security job only with miserable hours. While there are a few hundred guys doing something interesting in a war zone, the other 99% are providing basic security on a base for long hours. In most cases it is a 24/7 job and you won't be relaxing on dayshift and home by 4pm. If you like the Predator, you will enjoy considerable overseas time as well. They fly them in war zones after all.
Quite a few folks in pretty much every career field in the AF end up overseas for deployments or assignments. Don't be suprised if you are not home with the wife nightly, no matter what you do for a living. With any luck, she will be home waiting for you,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,alone.