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Posted: 1/29/2014 7:26:53 AM EDT
I got it from sleeping with my best friend's acquaintance almost two years ago. And I didn't know I caught it.

Me and my best friend have been sleeping together, and kind of have a thing going, and she got tested. She had it. And thought I was fucking other girls without telling her (not "cheating" but not safe).

We worked it out, and our arrangement will continue, but I feel insanely guilty, and dirty... and sick...

If it was just me, I wouldn't really care. Just take some antibiotics, and get that shit cleared up. But.. I gave it to my friend and we've had it almost 2 years without knowing. She's had stomach problems and stuff ever since, but we've never really connected it, as it wasn't on the radar. And I would feel like a total monster if it damages her permanently...

(I will not be posting pics, you dicks )....

I feel horrible. I fucked up so bad.

Has anybody dealt with anything like this?
Link Posted: 1/29/2014 7:27:39 AM EDT
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Link Posted: 1/29/2014 7:28:33 AM EDT
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That sucks OP, I had a scare in college when I got a call from a girl I had an arrangement with.  Fortunately, I didn't have anything and it was a clear indicator to me that our arrangement needed to cease
Link Posted: 1/29/2014 7:28:36 AM EDT
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Condoms.....how do they work?
Link Posted: 1/29/2014 7:28:37 AM EDT
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In.
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lol....




Shit sucks. Should wrapped it up pal.
Link Posted: 1/29/2014 7:28:39 AM EDT
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TMI, even for GD.
Link Posted: 1/29/2014 7:29:03 AM EDT
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This will be the next great thread, especially if the OP doesn't disappear.
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The best friend is on birth control. Didn't think of it as an issue.

Doctor tells me that you can get chlamydia from blowjobs, or any swap of bodily fluids. (I wore a condom with her friend every time.)
Link Posted: 1/29/2014 7:29:42 AM EDT
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You move from FL to CA?
Link Posted: 1/29/2014 7:29:52 AM EDT
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So are you wanting a High Five for your FWB arrangement or the disdain and harassment for having caught dirty dick?



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LOL.
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I think we should give him the disdain and harassment for having caught dirty dick
Link Posted: 1/29/2014 7:30:48 AM EDT
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Hope you and your friend don't have irreversable damage to your reproductive systems....or the ability to even reproduce.
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LOL!!

In before the "familiar" comments.
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Nope. Is that a reference to all the weird shit happening in FL?
Link Posted: 1/29/2014 7:31:03 AM EDT
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This thread is full of failure and chlamydia.
Link Posted: 1/29/2014 7:31:19 AM EDT
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I work at a hospital and what you got is nothing.  You got lucky.  I know people here will tell you to get as much poon as possible, but even using protection will not save your ass all the time.  Don't fuck yourself up by sleeping around so much, because you may catch something sooner or later, which will fuck shit up for you when you finally meet someone you really care about.
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You had drippy dick and didn't notice? I CALL BS! BULL-SHIT.
Link Posted: 1/29/2014 7:31:38 AM EDT
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So. In.
Link Posted: 1/29/2014 7:31:47 AM EDT
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Imagine my confusion when I got home from a month long fire deployment and was given chlamydia by my soon to be ex wife. On another note...apparently chlamydia can sit dormant for months with no signs. If you arent in a completely monogamous relationship, you should be getting tested regularly, too much nasty stuff out there. Also, pics of friend??????
Link Posted: 1/29/2014 7:32:00 AM EDT
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Why are you posting this here?  Who the hell wants to tell the world they got the clap along with all of the details?
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Just wow.  

Ever consider stopping?

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Are you sure that would be a bad thing in this instance?

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You know that thing where you have a sickness with no symptoms? Then you find out you have it, and you feel like you're experiencing every single symptom but it's in your head? It's like the reverse WebMD thing.

Yeah. It's happening now. I feel like pissing burns. Even though it totally doesn't.
Link Posted: 1/29/2014 7:33:01 AM EDT
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Cool story Ho!
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Link Posted: 1/29/2014 7:33:20 AM EDT
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Rocephin 250mg IM
Azithromycin 1000mg PO

done, next
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Nope. Is that a reference to all the weird shit happening in FL?




 
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Are you sure that would be a bad thing in this instance?



For me? Couldn't care less. For her? I'd feel terrible.
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The best friend is on birth control. Didn't think of it as an issue.

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The best friend is on birth control. Didn't think of it as an issue.



Are you trying for 18 years of child support? Never trust the other party when it comes to your freedom.



 
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Is that another poster? I've heard of GuyinFL.
Link Posted: 1/29/2014 7:34:12 AM EDT
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Chlamydia can have minimal to no symptoms, especially in women. So you can have it without knowing. The bad part is it can cause scarring in the Fallopian tubes of females and cause fertility issues for them down the road.

It is certainly plausible you picked it up from the previous relationship or she did, unless one or both of you was tested right at the start of your relationship and knew you were clean. Easily treated now that you know. Both of you should be treated, I'm sure you know that, and no sex until you finish treatment.

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Is that another poster? I've heard of GuyinFL.


Almost there...
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Your best friend is an idiot.
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Link Posted: 1/29/2014 7:35:28 AM EDT
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You know the rules.
Link Posted: 1/29/2014 7:35:36 AM EDT
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I'd like to understand the thought process when it hit you, "Hey, I should post this in General Discussion on AR15.com!!!".



Actually, no.  No, I wouldn't.
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