Bro code question

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Posted: 3/20/2013 11:30:12 AM EDT

My buddy has had a crush on a girl for several years.

She has shown absolutely no interest however they remain great friends and hang out frequently.

She has shown interest in me and knows we are good friends.

Would that break the code?

No pics , but shes Asian, hot, with big tatas.

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Posted: 3/20/2013 11:31:02 AM EDT

[#1]

I hate you

Posted: 3/20/2013 11:32:00 AM EDT

[#2]

Posted: 3/20/2013 11:33:32 AM EDT

[#3]

As long as you tell your friend that he has permission to call your sister then it's OK. It's a bylaw in the guy code.

Posted: 3/20/2013 11:34:18 AM EDT

[#4]

Depends on what the friendship is worth to you.

Posted: 3/20/2013 11:34:26 AM EDT

[#5]

Another GuyinFL thread? So fucking in!

Standard ARFCOM answer... Do both, her and him..

Posted: 3/20/2013 11:34:50 AM EDT

[#6]

Hook him up with your neighbor.

Posted: 3/20/2013 11:36:11 AM EDT

[#7]

Hot Asian with big ta tas..... Let him know whats going on and if he acts like a little bitch so what, you have a HOT ASIAN WITH BIG BOOBS!!!!!

Posted: 3/20/2013 11:39:03 AM EDT

[#8]

I told a friend to shit or get off the pot with a girl he had a crush on or I was going to ask her out. He called bullshit. I ended up dating her for 2 years.

I like Famke Janssen but that doesn't mean I have exclusive rights if she's hitting on you somewhere.

Posted: 3/20/2013 11:39:45 AM EDT

[#9]

Bros before hoes..........................

Does not apply if she is Asian and hott

pics asap, OP.

Posted: 3/20/2013 11:40:03 AM EDT

[#10]

Quoted:
Hook him up with your neighbor.

Posted: 3/20/2013 11:40:09 AM EDT

[#11]

Quoted:
I told a friend to shit or get off the pot with a girl he had a crush on or I was going to ask her out. He called bullshit. I ended up dating her for 2 years.

I like Famke Janssen but that doesn't mean I have exclusive rights if she's hitting on you somewhere.

Are you and him still friends?

Posted: 3/20/2013 11:40:33 AM EDT

[#12]

Quoted:
I told a friend to shit or get off the pot with a girl he had a crush on or I was going to ask her out. He called bullshit. I ended up dating her for 2 years.

I like Famke Janssen but that doesn't mean I have exclusive rights if she's hitting on you somewhere.

BINGO

Posted: 3/20/2013 11:40:34 AM EDT

[#13]

Quoted:
Hook him up with your neighbor.

And sister.

Posted: 3/20/2013 11:41:01 AM EDT

[#14]

In for another great thread.

Posted: 3/20/2013 11:41:15 AM EDT

[#15]

In.
Realtionship advice from arfcom GD. Priceless.

BTW: Bros before hoes.

Posted: 3/20/2013 11:41:24 AM EDT

[#16]

Ask yourself whether you value the friendship or the romp with said asian girl more.

Reserving judgement against your bro for staying in the friend zone for so long with this chick (pathetic as it might be), he has the right to think you're an asshole if you bang her behind his back.

Does he have a "I just wanna fuck her" type of crush or is he madly in love thinking that it'll happen one day? Girls use guys like that for certain relationship-y needs and will continue to do so if you get involved. This shituation has the potential to explode in your face.

Get her to hook you up with one of her friends.

Posted: 3/20/2013 11:41:46 AM EDT

[#17]

Bro Code?

If she's not with him - and she's not - she's available.

Posted: 3/20/2013 11:42:15 AM EDT

[#18]

No pics, no advice!

BOTD Now!!!!! or GTFO!

Posted: 3/20/2013 11:42:35 AM EDT

[#19]

Quoted:
I told a friend to shit or get off the pot with a girl he had a crush on or I was going to ask her out. He called bullshit. I ended up dating her for 2 years.

I like Famke Janssen but that doesn't mean I have exclusive rights if she's hitting on you somewhere.

Same scenario happened to me about 19 years ago with a good friend, the girl he crushed on has been my wife for 15 years, i like her alot more than him....

Posted: 3/20/2013 11:42:47 AM EDT

[#20]

Quoted:
Ask yourself whether you value the friendship or the romp with said asian girl more.

Reserving judgement against your bro for staying in the friend zone for so long with this chick (pathetic as it might be), he has the right to think you're an asshole if you bang her behind his back.

Does he have a "I just wanna fuck her" type of crush or is he madly in love thinking that it'll happen one day? Girls use guys like that for certain relationship-y needs and will continue to do so if you get involved. This shituation has the potential to explode in your face.

Get her to hook you up with one of her friends.

Her mom is Chinese and her dad is Cuban. She doesn't have any friends like her.

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Posted: 3/20/2013 11:42:56 AM EDT

[#21]

If she's Asian, fuck the bro-code...

But Asian's with big Tata's = likely store bought.

Asian or not, no plastic tities.

Posted: 3/20/2013 11:43:17 AM EDT

[#22]

Ask your friend if he's cool with you moving forward.

Posted: 3/20/2013 11:44:02 AM EDT

[#23]

The worst thing in the world for a guy is to get pushed into "friend" status. The next worse is for your buddy to hook up with that chick. I would pass.

Posted: 3/20/2013 11:44:59 AM EDT

[#24]

Quoted:

Quoted:
Hook him up with your neighbor.

And sister.

And make sure one of them has a strap-on handy.

Posted: 3/20/2013 11:45:23 AM EDT

[#25]

Tell him your gonna bang her if he's not going to but you will let him watch. Conditions are as follows: as long as he keeps his hands to himself and does not by any means make eye contact with you while you plow his crush!

Posted: 3/20/2013 11:46:17 AM EDT

[#26]

Posted: 3/20/2013 11:47:21 AM EDT

[#27]

Bros before hoes..... Who will have your back when shit gets real always remember that!

Posted: 3/20/2013 11:47:35 AM EDT

[#28]

He's had his chance and be hasn't made a move. She isn't interested in him. Tough shit for him, fo.

Posted: 3/20/2013 11:47:52 AM EDT

[#29]

Quoted:
The worst thing in the world for a guy is to get pushed into "friend" status. The next worse is for your buddy to hook up with that chick. I would pass.

Yeah, pretty well not worth it. Then again, I like having friends.

Posted: 3/20/2013 11:47:59 AM EDT

[#30]

You can bang her only once he finds something to bang, otherwise he'll see it as cockblocking.

Posted: 3/20/2013 11:48:46 AM EDT

[#31]

I would say hit it. Sounds fun.

Posted: 3/20/2013 11:49:54 AM EDT

[#32]

In.

Posted: 3/20/2013 11:50:04 AM EDT

[#33]

GuyinFL Thread.

In.

Just me personally, but I would not do that to a friend.

Posted: 3/20/2013 11:50:21 AM EDT

[#34]

Keep the door shut. Hit her and , do it again.

Fuck her til you get caught. No more friends for you.

Go ask him , can I bang her? That's what I'd ask a friend back in the 80's .

Bunch of pussies anymore.

Step up to the plate , or sit on the bench.

Posted: 3/20/2013 11:50:31 AM EDT

[#35]

Quoted:
As long as you tell your friend that he has permission to call your sister then it's OK. It's a bylaw in the guy code.

one of the few here who actually knows the bro code and bylaws. i am impressed sir

by the way, the part in quotes is the only ethical thing to do.

Posted: 3/20/2013 11:51:03 AM EDT

[#36]

If she is wifey material, fo.

If not, stay with the friend.

You will likely lose the friend anyway, but a good woman is better than a good friend.

If your friend is worth keeping, he will stay friends and understand.

Posted: 3/20/2013 11:51:11 AM EDT

[#37]

Quoted:
You can bang her only once he finds something to bang, otherwise he'll see it as cockblocking.

And if she coked up and hot give him first swing... I think that is a fl rule?

Eta is he a couch moving friend or a body moving friend?

Posted: 3/20/2013 11:51:28 AM EDT

[#38]

I'd say ask the friend if he is cool with it. If He has been after it for a while and has had no luck then it should be your turn.

Posted: 3/20/2013 11:51:30 AM EDT

[#39]

People are too fucking sensitive about the pussy. Men need to quit putting that shit on a pedestal that's how they end up using that thing as their negotiating tool when they want their way. Too many girls out there for anyone to get their panties in a twist over just one. Help ur buddy get some tang and your golden...

Posted: 3/20/2013 11:52:07 AM EDT

[#40]

Sorry to crush people's spirits, but the Bro Code is 100% BS. If the table was turned, he would be jumping on that opportunity.
Go get her, tiger.

Posted: 3/20/2013 11:52:24 AM EDT

[#41]

Quoted:

Quoted:
I told a friend to shit or get off the pot with a girl he had a crush on or I was going to ask her out. He called bullshit. I ended up dating her for 2 years.

I like Famke Janssen but that doesn't mean I have exclusive rights if she's hitting on you somewhere.

Are you and him still friends?

Yes.

Posted: 3/20/2013 11:52:29 AM EDT

[#42]

Quoted:

As long as you tell your friend that he has permission to call your sister then it's OK. It's a bylaw in the guy code.

By-Law? What's a by-law?
friggin Chuck Norris....

Posted: 3/20/2013 11:52:34 AM EDT

[#43]

It's just a piece of pie. That's not worth losing a real friend over.

If he is just an acquantance and you don't care, then proceed.

Posted: 3/20/2013 11:53:58 AM EDT

[#44]

Hot Asians with big racks = Crazy, hot headed controlling GFs but great sex!

Posted: 3/20/2013 11:54:08 AM EDT

[#45]

Quoted:
It's just a piece of pie. That's not worth losing a real friend over.

If he is just an acquantance and you don't care, then proceed.

We've been good friends for 20 years

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Posted: 3/20/2013 11:54:12 AM EDT

[#46]

Quoted:

Quoted:
You can bang her only once he finds something to bang, otherwise he'll see it as cockblocking.

And if she coked up and hot give him first swing... I think that is a fl rule?

"It ain't no fun if ur homey can't have none!" ~ Snoop Dogg
However, also applies in FL!

Posted: 3/20/2013 11:54:19 AM EDT

[#47]

IF she:

1) Knows that you are his buddy,

AND

2) She understands that he has expressed interest in her

AND

3) She is then expressing interest in YOU

THEN

4) She is a drama-loving ho.