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Posted: 2/17/2019 4:22:06 AM EDT
My wife and I decided it might be fun to bring a third person into our sex life, and she decided it should be her best friend. We had three or four fun nights together, and it all went pretty damn good.

That was over a year ago, and her best friend is married now, but has mentioned hooking up with us again, only this time her husband would be invited.

I don't know how I feel about another dude being involved, but I think my wife wants some more girl on girl action.

Should I just go for it and buy a couple of paper plates to be sure? What would you guys do?
Link Posted: 2/17/2019 4:25:16 AM EDT
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Used to work with a serious “butch”. Remember her  saying once that pretty much anytime the woman suggests it, it’s usually because she’s thinking about switching teams.

Don’t know if there’s any truth to that, but it sounds like it may apply here.
Link Posted: 2/17/2019 4:25:37 AM EDT
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lol what comes around goes around.

Good luck
Link Posted: 2/17/2019 4:25:50 AM EDT
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What the fuck is wrong with you?
Link Posted: 2/17/2019 4:27:57 AM EDT
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No pics of wife and best friend scissoring?
Link Posted: 2/17/2019 4:29:34 AM EDT
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What are the paper plates for?
Link Posted: 2/17/2019 4:29:53 AM EDT
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Link Posted: 2/17/2019 4:30:30 AM EDT
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Hard to say, but I expect I’m happier not knowing.
Link Posted: 2/17/2019 4:30:36 AM EDT
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Link Posted: 2/17/2019 4:31:20 AM EDT
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I have a good friend, his wife suggested the same thing after a year or so of this she did divorce him and moved in with another woman.   I also know a few couples that swing and have no such drama in their lives.   I don't know the stats of marriages that fail because of stuff like this but lots of them fail because of dumber shit like money.
Link Posted: 2/17/2019 4:31:56 AM EDT
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Link Posted: 2/17/2019 4:32:33 AM EDT
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Link Posted: 2/17/2019 4:33:56 AM EDT
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Yes I have and as far as what you’re asking, no don’t do it, I could give a couple explanations but I’ll just stay short & simple and say eject
Link Posted: 2/17/2019 4:34:01 AM EDT
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Used to work with a serious “butch”. Remember her  saying once that pretty much anytime the woman suggests it, it’s usually because she’s thinking about switching teams.

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That's not a problem. I know 100% she wouldn't do that to me. We have a very unique relationship, been together 10 years, married 8 of those. We have 3 kids together and we couldn't be happier in our marriage.

I originally brought up the idea of a MFF threesome to her, and she was apprehensive at first, but she enjoyed it after the fact.

We both have sexual fantasies we wanted to experience, and we are comfortable enough in our marriage to pursue those things providing we both agree to it.
Link Posted: 2/17/2019 4:34:07 AM EDT
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I’ve got a buddy that has done this with two of his wives (ex now). They both left him for the other woman; just sayin...
Link Posted: 2/17/2019 4:34:24 AM EDT
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Are you gonna bang the dude? Maybe just hand stuff?
Link Posted: 2/17/2019 4:37:31 AM EDT
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My son in laws brother got married. Then one of her friends moved in. And now they are a threesome. His Mom is beside herself. Good luck OP, but it could go south real easy.
Link Posted: 2/17/2019 4:37:44 AM EDT
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Not married, but I've done it many times and never had a problem.

Never with another guy involved though. I wouldn't let another guy fuck my significant other.
Link Posted: 2/17/2019 4:39:55 AM EDT
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Link Posted: 2/17/2019 4:40:10 AM EDT
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Op sounds like you’re gonna have another man have sex with you or your wife

I don’t condone this deviant behavior
Link Posted: 2/17/2019 4:40:35 AM EDT
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What happens when your wife becomes their third?
Link Posted: 2/17/2019 4:41:02 AM EDT
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I think it's time to start retainer on a divorce lawyer.
Link Posted: 2/17/2019 4:41:26 AM EDT
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There was no scissoring, and the pics aren't COC compliant. Sorry.
Link Posted: 2/17/2019 4:41:34 AM EDT
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Op is getting anal from her husband
Link Posted: 2/17/2019 4:45:43 AM EDT
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Nope, I don't roll that way. If it does happen it would be girl on girl, and husband on their own wifes. I just don't know if it will go as smooth as it did with only my penis in the room.
Link Posted: 2/17/2019 4:46:40 AM EDT
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lol what comes around goes reaches around.

Good luck
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Link Posted: 2/17/2019 4:52:08 AM EDT
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Congrats OP

You're retarded.

Enjoy the coming implosion of your life
Link Posted: 2/17/2019 4:52:54 AM EDT
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Nope, I don't roll that way. If it does happen it would be girl on girl, and husband on their own wifes. I just don't know if it will go as smooth as it did with only my penis in the room.
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Nope, I don't roll that way. If it does happen it would be girl on girl, and husband on their own wifes. I just don't know if it will go as smooth as it did with only my penis in the room.
And when he makes a move her way, she's going to say "No" for sure?
Link Posted: 2/17/2019 4:55:15 AM EDT
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Nope, I don't roll that way. If it does happen it would be girl on girl, and husband on their own wifes. I just don't know if it will go as smooth as it did with only my penis in the room.
And when he makes a move her way, she's going to say "No" for sure?
Lol yeah right
Link Posted: 2/17/2019 4:55:19 AM EDT
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My girlfriend arranged it when i turned forty.
Her friend always liked me so she was all for it.
Rented a suite with a big jacuzzi tub.
Girlfriend got a couple Viagra from her dad.
We all had a good time and were exhausted the next day.
Never happened again and has never been mentioned and we are still friends.

Girlfriend never wanted to have another guy join in, but she really enjoyed the girl on girl action with her friend.
Link Posted: 2/17/2019 4:58:54 AM EDT
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Yes I have and as far as what you’re asking, no don’t do it, I could give a couple explanations but I’ll just stay short & simple and say eject
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I won't eject from my marriage with my wife, unless she gives me a damn good reason. I trust her, and she trusts me.

If either of us break that trust, ejecting will be the result. I probably won't go through with the idea, and if so my wife won't care. If she goes behind my back and has sex with her best friend and her husband, that would be the time to pull the eject handle, and I wouldn't think twice about it. I don't have to worry about that, and that is why this all works. Trust is key.
Link Posted: 2/17/2019 4:59:32 AM EDT
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I won't eject from my marriage with my wife, unless she gives me a damn good reason. I trust her, and she trusts me.

If either of us break that trust, ejecting will be the result. I probably won't go through with the idea, and if so my wife won't care. If she goes behind my back and has sex with her best friend and her husband, that would be the time to pull the eject handle, and I wouldn't think twice about it. I don't have to worry about that, and that is why this all works. Trust is key.
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whatever
Link Posted: 2/17/2019 5:00:13 AM EDT
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There was no scissoring, and the pics aren't COC compliant. Sorry.
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That's EXACTLY why the ARF Instant Messaging System was developed.

We'll be waiting.

Link Posted: 2/17/2019 5:01:48 AM EDT
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My wife and I decided it might be fun to bring a third person into our sex life, and she decided it should be her best friend. We had three or four fun nights together, and it all went pretty damn good.

That was over a year ago, and her best friend is married now, but has mentioned hooking up with us again, only this time her husband would be invited.

I don't know how I feel about another dude being involved, but I think my wife wants some more girl on girl action.

Should I just go for it and buy a couple of paper plates to be sure? What would you guys do?
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No thanks...I have no interest in being in a bed with another dude present no matter what the circumstances might be..
Link Posted: 2/17/2019 5:05:03 AM EDT
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This, or is he banging OPS wife? No need for him to be there.
Link Posted: 2/17/2019 5:07:27 AM EDT
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Nope, I don't roll that way. If it does happen it would be girl on girl, and husband on their own wifes. I just don't know if it will go as smooth as it did with only my penis in the room.
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Nope, I don't roll that way. If it does happen it would be girl on girl, and husband on their own wifes. I just don't know if it will go as smooth as it did with only my penis in the room.
I don't even want to see a naked dude.......even if he's doing his own wife. Hell, I 2ouldnt want a dude watching.......
Link Posted: 2/17/2019 5:09:08 AM EDT
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Stupid.
Link Posted: 2/17/2019 5:09:59 AM EDT
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I won't eject from my marriage with my wife, unless she gives me a damn good reason. I trust her, and she trusts me.

If either of us break that trust, ejecting will be the result. I probably won't go through with the idea, and if so my wife won't care. If she goes behind my back and has sex with her best friend and her husband, that would be the time to pull the eject handle, and I wouldn't think twice about it. I don't have to worry about that, and that is why this all works. Trust is key.
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Yes I have and as far as what you’re asking, no don’t do it, I could give a couple explanations but I’ll just stay short & simple and say eject
I won't eject from my marriage with my wife, unless she gives me a damn good reason. I trust her, and she trusts me.

If either of us break that trust, ejecting will be the result. I probably won't go through with the idea, and if so my wife won't care. If she goes behind my back and has sex with her best friend and her husband, that would be the time to pull the eject handle, and I wouldn't think twice about it. I don't have to worry about that, and that is why this all works. Trust is key.

You are seriously jacked up
Link Posted: 2/17/2019 5:09:59 AM EDT
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I won't eject from my marriage with my wife, unless she gives me a damn good reason. I trust her, and she trusts me.

If either of us break that trust, ejecting will be the result. I probably won't go through with the idea, and if so my wife won't care. If she goes behind my back and has sex with her best friend and her husband, that would be the time to pull the eject handle, and I wouldn't think twice about it. I don't have to worry about that, and that is why this all works. Trust is key.
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Link Posted: 2/17/2019 5:12:47 AM EDT
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Are you sure y'all not related, because it's Kentucky?
Link Posted: 2/17/2019 5:14:41 AM EDT
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OP My ex wife and I did an insane amount of 3somes with women all over the world and in Hollywood before we divorced. We have 2 kids.

The topic isn’t theoretical to me Attachment Attached File
Link Posted: 2/17/2019 5:16:42 AM EDT
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My wife and I might be distant cousins, but we haven't worked all that out yet. When they asked if we were related when we applied for our marriage license, we said no if that counts for anything.
Link Posted: 2/17/2019 5:17:11 AM EDT
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Cuckold thread
Link Posted: 2/17/2019 5:18:17 AM EDT
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My wife and I might be distant cousins, but we haven't worked all that out yet. When they asked if we were related when we applied for our marriage license, we said no if that counts for anything.
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Are you sure y'all not related, because it's Kentucky?
My wife and I might be distant cousins, but we haven't worked all that out yet. When they asked if we were related when we applied for our marriage license, we said no if that counts for anything.
Put down the shovel. You’re only making matters worse.
Link Posted: 2/17/2019 5:19:25 AM EDT
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You’ve learned an important lesson about threesomes. Always use a stranger.

Best of luck on the next wife. This one is done.
Link Posted: 2/17/2019 5:21:36 AM EDT
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That's not a problem. I know 100% she wouldn't do that to me. We have a very unique relationship, been together 10 years, married 8 of those. We have 3 kids together and we couldn't be happier in our marriage.

I originally brought up the idea of a MFF threesome to her, and she was apprehensive at first, but she enjoyed it after the fact.

We both have sexual fantasies we wanted to experience, and we are comfortable enough in our marriage to pursue those things providing we both agree to it.
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Quoting this for your upcoming divorce thread.

Link Posted: 2/17/2019 5:23:59 AM EDT
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Call you arfcom's third  pony.
Link Posted: 2/17/2019 5:24:49 AM EDT
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Put down the shovel. You’re only making matters worse.
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Are you sure y'all not related, because it's Kentucky?
My wife and I might be distant cousins, but we haven't worked all that out yet. When they asked if we were related when we applied for our marriage license, we said no if that counts for anything.
Put down the shovel. You’re only making matters worse.
I'm joking obviously, but they did ask if we were related. Is that a Kentucky only thing, or do they ask in other states?
Link Posted: 2/17/2019 5:25:02 AM EDT
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Did I get in before the divorce?
Link Posted: 2/17/2019 5:26:08 AM EDT
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Yes, you did.
Link Posted: 2/17/2019 5:26:12 AM EDT
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BTDT with the 2nd woman thing, not her best friend though.

Turning it into a foursome with another dude? No thanks, even if it followed your couples & girl on girl only rules.

If she just wants another chick go pick one up together.
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