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Link Posted: 5/8/2004 12:02:08 PM EDT

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Actually, being a stripper or being in the sex trade IS different than being a bank teller... and the motivation is NOT just money.  Sometimes it is the attention, sometimes it is the drugs, sometimes it is low self-esteem... etc, etc

Consider this.... someone who is a stripper has put a price on something that most people would only share with someone they are intimate with.  What part of being a bank teller is relevant in your sex life (other than the occasional fetish dress up game )?  

IMHO, FWIW, yadda, yadda.... someone who can put a price on something that should be so special and personal has something fundamentally fucked up with them.  




That's probably the number one reason....... Low self-esteem!
Link Posted: 5/8/2004 1:56:54 PM EDT
definite MAYBE!
Link Posted: 5/8/2004 6:24:50 PM EDT
Exotic Dancer... yes
Porn star... no

The Exotic Dancer comes home with loads of cash.
The Porn Star comes home with loads... dripping out.
Link Posted: 5/8/2004 6:38:08 PM EDT
I have dibs on Ginger from HBO's G-String Divas
Link Posted: 5/8/2004 6:42:57 PM EDT

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...With a RARE exception they are ALL fucked in the head in one way or another. Out of over a hundred or so that i knew personally 1 actually finished her degree and became an nurse anesthtist.



Uhhh, I think that applies to females in general, IMHO.



Although i rather do enjoy looking at them



Yep!  And Great Fun to go party with at the bars.  They know how to have fun.  Plus, other chicky snacks will walk up to a fat ugly guy and hit on you just to find out "why the hell are they with him????"
Link Posted: 5/8/2004 6:51:01 PM EDT
Link Posted: 5/8/2004 8:15:58 PM EDT
Here's a pick of my wife last year at Mardi gras.She's the one whith the glasses.and thats her friend and my dad.
Link Posted: 5/8/2004 8:19:21 PM EDT
how to post image it gives some url thing
Link Posted: 5/8/2004 9:00:43 PM EDT
I came close to doing it. Hada ring and everything. Started acting nuts before I gave it to her so I never did..

I don't see why not though, a job is a job.
Link Posted: 5/8/2004 9:57:43 PM EDT
well, i do have a kid with one, but marriage is kinda iffy under those circumstances, sides, my wife would kill me
Link Posted: 5/8/2004 11:53:31 PM EDT

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This thread is worthless without pics.

+1

Link Posted: 5/9/2004 12:00:13 AM EDT
Marry an exotic dance? Hell no, Marriage is against my beliefs.
Link Posted: 5/9/2004 1:00:04 AM EDT
Well, here is a wrench in the debate.

I dated one, married the same one and have been happy ever since!

I did not know she did the dance thing when we started dating (met her through a friend).  I found out after a bit of time since she felt we were getting serious and thought I should know.  Of course being young and testosterone driven I thought, "wow, what bragging rights!"  

She also was just graduating with a BS and quit the job as soon as she got the diploma.  Her opinion on the usual dancer is much the same as many here.  MESSED UP!

My wife and I have been together for 6.5 years (dated for 3 and married for the rest).  The only reasond we waited so long on the vows due to time and schedule.

BTW, she is now a project manager for Dell and makes much more than I do.

I also get to buy all the firearms I want ....the Harley....spent time with my wife....damn I love her!

PS: I do still threaten to tell my kids that I actually met here at the dance club.  That usually gets me a swift kick to the butt which hurts since she is also a Krav Maga instructor.
Link Posted: 5/9/2004 1:03:00 AM EDT

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Marry an exotic dance? Hell no, Marriage is against my beliefs.



Same here.
Link Posted: 5/9/2004 4:18:11 AM EDT
I wouldn't even marry a non-virgin, even those I've been with.  I know that ain't right, and all the mothers say " why buy the cow when the milk is free ".  But that's not it.  I want my wife to have only experienced me.  I do not look down on non-virgins in the slightest, but I only want my wife to be with me.

Does this belong on the stripper post?
Link Posted: 5/9/2004 4:38:52 AM EDT

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It might bother me, just a wee bit, but IF I fell in love with an 'exotic dancer' I would have no problems marrying her.

Provided she wasn't a whore.

I wouldn't marry a wealthy female doctor or lawyer if they had ever been a whore.

Now, the question is - are there any topless dancers who are not also whores?

Is 'whore' a perjorative term?

Damn straight it is!

Eric The(HolierThanFew)Hun



In my experience, that's the challenge finding one that wasn't.

Tj
Link Posted: 5/9/2004 4:58:46 AM EDT
Link Posted: 5/9/2004 5:06:32 AM EDT

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Jesus forgave Mary Magdelaine her sins. Why can't you aspire to be more like Jesus?




But Jesus didn't marry Mary, did he?
Link Posted: 5/9/2004 5:39:56 AM EDT

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Would you marry an Exotic Dancer?  



No but I WOULD insist that YOU marry one !
Link Posted: 5/9/2004 6:33:55 AM EDT

Quoted:

Quoted:



Jesus forgave Mary Magdelaine her sins. Why can't you aspire to be more like Jesus?




But Jesus didn't marry Mary, did he?



Maybe he would have. I think he definately would have OK'd someone else marrying her. Do you think he would have said she should never marry anyone and no one should consider marrying her?

What kind of Christian are you?
Link Posted: 5/9/2004 7:08:30 AM EDT

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Well, here is a wrench in the debate.

I dated one, married the same one and have been happy ever since!

I did not know she did the dance thing when we started dating (met her through a friend).  I found out after a bit of time since she felt we were getting serious and thought I should know.  Of course being young and testosterone driven I thought, "wow, what bragging rights!"  

She also was just graduating with a BS and quit the job as soon as she got the diploma.  Her opinion on the usual dancer is much the same as many here.  MESSED UP!

My wife and I have been together for 6.5 years (dated for 3 and married for the rest).  The only reasond we waited so long on the vows due to time and schedule.

BTW, she is now a project manager for Dell and makes much more than I do.

I also get to buy all the firearms I want ....the Harley....spent time with my wife....damn I love her!

PS: I do still threaten to tell my kids that I actually met here at the dance club.  That usually gets me a swift kick to the butt which hurts since she is also a Krav Maga instructor.



This thread is worthless without pictures.  
Link Posted: 5/9/2004 7:12:58 AM EDT
Ok, in all honesty, I've been there.  I always tell my friends to be careful about falling in love with a woman who sells herself because the moment you can't give her what she wants, there will be someone else ready to give it to her.  Its the nature of her relationships with men.

Of course, there are happy exceptions, but you have to play the odds.

Link Posted: 5/9/2004 7:24:49 AM EDT
Marry one? I've never been in the same room with one (knowingly, anyway).
Link Posted: 5/9/2004 7:28:56 AM EDT
No. I don't like to share. And I don't cheat either.
Link Posted: 5/9/2004 8:29:23 PM EDT
Link Posted: 5/10/2004 4:35:07 AM EDT
One part of me says no way because I couldn't stand knowing that she goes to work every day and drunken horny assholes are always trying to grope her and she might be enjoying it and just not saying anything.

The other part of me says, if she's totally hot, then I should flaunt her like a solid gold AR...

But in reality I couldn't trust her when there are always guys trying to swoon her by sticking money in her G.
Link Posted: 5/10/2004 9:28:53 AM EDT
"Dated" plenty of 'em back in the day. Still have lots of acquaintances that strip too.

Most of 'em are seriously fucked in the head. Daddy issues, drugs, etc. Good for freaky sex, but that's it. There's exceptions to the rule, but they're few and far between.

Hell no.
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