Bud is the neighbor next to my farm. He is now in a nursing home. He will be 105 yo next February.
He has been deer hunting with me for around 7 or 8 years. I've hunted his place for years and asked if he wanted to go with me. He jumped at the chance. He had bought a 30/30 because he saw and heard a mountain lion on his property. May or may not be true, but I believe him. So we've been hunting ever since.
The good friend whose land we are on doesn't mind me taking Bud and hunting from the truck with him. Her husband was a dear friend, now gone, and she relies on her renter and me to keep the fences and place up. Around 640 acres.
About Bud, e killed a doe at age 99, a nice 8 pt buck at 101, and another 6 pt buck last year at 103.
His family is all long gone, he is a funny guy and a blast to be around. I'm white, he is "old school" black, and it is an odd mixture. But we are best of friends and I care for the old man a great deal.
But I have to lift him into the truck and out again. Last year, I shot a buck in the field, got the truck as close as I could to the wheat, then starting dragging the buck across the field.
Here comes the old man, 103, gonna help me drag the deer. His legs were giving him trouble but he was coming to help me with that deer. He has "backbone", more so than most could ever know or perceive.
Up to 2 years ago, he was going strong but then his legs started going. Probably from prostate cancer. He is too old to be cut on, so they are letting it run it's course. Not much pain for him, but he can't hold his water, walk or stand.
It is the worst of situations for him - the mind is willing, but the body is too worn.
And his other partner, the one that coon hunted with him up into his mid-90s, just died a few months ago.
He has many friends, but very few close friends.
I'm not his family, can't even come close. But I can be as good a friend to him as I possibly can and will be till he goes.