Don't buy the damned gun based on novelty, that's the least you can do for yourself. For a go to gun, the last thing that will be going through your mind is how jealous all your mall ninja friends will be. As others have recommended, ergonomics should be key as both weapons platforms are great and replacement parts readily available (more so for the AR). Fondle both at a candy store, try both if you can, then make a sound decision.
As for the veterans propensity towards the AR platform, you're absolutely correct in assuming most like their ARs. We know the manual of arms, some of us have detailed it to every nut and bolt, been through the good times and bad. It is a part of our history, and for those who've properly maintained their weapons through all of its trials and tribulations, it has kept us safe and earned our respected confidence. We don't live in a 3rd world shit hole, nor should we neglect our weapons as such. All machines eventually break down, a proper PM routine will make all the difference. Look up Pat Rogers PDF on basic maintenance tips on the AR platform for more knowledge.
If you like both, get both if you can, but damn it don't get one over the other because you think 1) it makes you instantly tacticooler or 2) you'll be able to retire from it's appreciated value.