To me, this is a good thing. Sometimes I find the selectors to be way too tight. Just make sure you installed the correct detent with the "pointy" end towards the selector, and the spring is holding sufficient pressure between the grip and the detent.
If its really loose, it just means the manufacturer of the selector did not deepen the detent holes in the safe and fire position as much as others... therefore, the detent is not holding it so tightly in place. If you really wanted it tighter, you could get a drill or dremel, and deepen/sharpen these holes.