Stumbled across this thread from googling yesterday:
http://www.ar15.com/forums/t_3_118/551542_Is_this_receiver_gap_acceptable_.html
Can't reply since it was archived, so here goes:
The OP from the linked thread states that his lower was a PSA, but ultimately attributed his receiver gap to the upper. I'm having the same exact issue with one of my PSA lowers, and my receiver gap looks about the same as the one pictured. The pins can be pushed in place without a ton of effort, but it still looks really bad.
I currently have 2 BCM uppers- one is mated to a RRA lower, and one is mated to a Spikes lower. No issues with either setup, no gap of any kind. I can put both of those uppers onto this PSA lower, and the gap looks like it does in the picture from the other thread. So both of my BCM uppers are out of spec? I think not. Guess I'll have to order a PSA upper in order to not have a gap between the receivers (although that isn't what I originally wanted to do).
So if the takedown pins lock in place without a lot of trouble, the firearm is safe to shoot, and the buffer retainer pin shouldn't take a battering? How much gap is too much?