There is a young woman that I have known for about 2years, through extended family friends. She has recently come back to school in my geographical state, however, I am still in a state of indecision.
I am a nice guy, in decent shape, a little redneck once in a while, and somewhat of a workaholic. The workaholic part is where I think she was dissapointed with me. I asked her out for coffee, then got called in to work for an emergency meeting. I guess I could have cancelled it, but I didn't. I haven't been able to do anything since. We still talk once in a while, and keep in touch, but I can't get her to do anything fun.
She is the ultimate, likes guns, grew up in the country, is a professing Christian, smart and very good looking.
It could be I am going about it the wrong way. I have asked her to do some stuff where we have a mutual interest, skiing, nice evening out, etc. What I am thinking of doing, is just showing up at her apartment with flowers, compliments, and a honest apology with hopes of a relationship. Would this be too creepy?
Any suggestions?
Also, what should I ask her out to do? I have thought of what I want to do, spend an afternoon in the mountains exploring + picnic, skiing, dinner & movie. The mountain day trip is a little much I am thinking, and the dinner & movie is too normal. I am in a quandry about what to do.
-Confused in Colorado