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Duct tape

Silk robe ties.

Quoted: I have no experience here guys, any help on what I should use I tried a belt but she escaped and laughed at me, then I tried 550 cord put in the heat of the moment it takes to long, I was thinking of cuffs but dont know if that would be pushing things? How about like ties? I heard they are good because they are soft but you can tie a good knot??

Read Stephen King's Gerald's Game first and get back to us.

Quoted: Duct tape

But put the first layer on sticky side up.


How about silk stockings?
Or scarves?

I'll be the first to say...this thread is worthless without pics!

Quoted: Quoted: I have no experience here guys, any help on what I should use I tried a belt but she escaped and laughed at me, then I tried 550 cord put in the heat of the moment it takes to long, I was thinking of cuffs but dont know if that would be pushing things? How about like ties? I heard they are good because they are soft but you can tie a good knot?? Read Stephen King's Gerald's Game first and get back to us.

That book was disturbing!




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Razor wire.

Cuffs work fine, just put some padding, or they leave marks.

Quoted: Duct tape

LOL

Furry hand cuffs?

A tazer will keep from thrashing around while you tie her up.

Google is your friend:



The Double-Rope Bondage Style
(Popular U.S. style developed from Japanese roots)

Fold, Wrap, Turn, & Cinch

1. Fold (double) the rope at the center.  Doubled rope wraps more evenly and comfortably. The folded point is called the Lark's Head.

2. Wrap once, bring both ends through the Lark's Head, and reverse direction to continue wrapping.

3. Stop when you only have enough left for about one more wrap.

4. Turn both ends perpendicular and pull them through the Lark's Head.

5. Separate the ends (one heads North, the other heads South); wrap them at a right angle from the original wrapping.  This cross-wrapping is called the cinch.

6. Stop cinch-wrapping when you're almost out of rope.

7. Bring the ends together and tie a square knot.

I've made a mini-movie MPEG demonstrating the basic Double-Rope technique; it's at my Yahoo group.  Log in to Yahoo Groups, go to Bedroom Bondage Yahoo Group, and visit the Files section.



Basic Wrist Positions

Rope isn't well suited for tying a solo limb. If you try it, make sure you're binding a "bracelet" and are not pulling all the tension on just one wrap. A superior alternative is a handkerchief. Wrap it repeatedly around the limb and knot; then tie your connector rope through all of the 'kerchief wraps.

Wrists Palm to Palm
The wrapping is horizontal, the cinch is vertical. As time passes, the sub can change arm positions to relieve muscle strain.

Wrists Crossed
This looks sexy. Since the elbows will bend outward and the arms should not be forced in by bondage, don't add torso/arm ropes.


Basic Ankle Positions

Parallel Ankles
Nice if you want the sub trying to roll around on their own.

Easy Crossed Ankles
This adds a feminine look to the legs.

Strict Crossed Ankles
Instead of the calves being almost parallel, they're roped so that the knees are forced apart. Best for access to that sensitive pleasure place.



Hobbles and Bar-Wraps

"Bar-Wrap" / Hobble
A Hobble features less Wrap and more Cinch, with space between the two limbs.

Elbow Bar-Wrap
Though flexible subs can touch their elbows together behind their back, for most people there needs to be space between the elbows. A hobble above the elbows will add security to arm bondage.

ZIP TIES!!  MJD

Ties work well.

20 years ago I would have said go for it.
These days...if you proceed do so with great caution.

Take, and post, pictures.

I use 550 cord - that seems to work pretty well, but only if you can tie good knots under pressure.
Check out comfy cuffs - those work pretty well, while being comfortable.
DO NOT USE HANDCUFFS - they can cause nerve damage, as well as bruising.

You're on a slippery slope. Consider carefully the longer term implications.

Quoted: You're on a slippery slope.

not if she gets untied first

Thans for the memories. We used a robe tie, also a belt but it was a weave type, Hand cuffs were next but not as fun.
Again thanks for the memories, I miss her.

Quoted: You're on a slippery slope. Consider carefully the longer term implications.

for some reason when I start tieing things do get really slippery?????? am i doing something wrong?

Seriously though its all in fun and it isn't very rough at all, its just playing around...

Get a signed and notarized statement from her that she is actively requesting that you tie her up and ravage you, just in case you accidentally kill her.  

Quoted: Quoted: You're on a slippery slope. Consider carefully the longer term implications. for some reason when I start tieing things do get really slippery?????? am i doing something wrong? Seriously though its all in fun and it isn't very rough at all, its just playing around...

Isn't that what Mr LittleJohn is saying these days


Be careful as to what doors you open. You might like it too much.

Get her to bring some old pantyhose.

Quoted: You're on a slippery slope. Consider carefully the longer term implications.

What are the "long-term implications"? Wild, kinky, uninhibited sex?

www.scoutresources.org.uk/SR/knots_az02.html#handcuff

Fast to make and tie off.  Amazing what you learn in the boy scouts that comes in handy with that kinky girlfriend years later.

Handcuff Knot - A double loop knot suitable for use for handcuffing a prisoner. One loop is placed round each wrist, both ends pulled tight and then hitched round the neck of the loop. Basically, it is identical to the Fireman's Chair Knot when completed.


You have to be careful how you tie someone up.  If you force them to "scrunch up" their body and then gag them, you can choke them to death.   It's called positional asphyxia.  Google some websites for suggetions.

Quoted: Quoted: You're on a slippery slope. Consider carefully the longer term implications. What are the "long-term implications"? Wild, kinky, uninhibited sex?

No the crazy girl not going away.

Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: You're on a slippery slope. Consider carefully the longer term implications. What are the "long-term implications"? Wild, kinky, uninhibited sex? No the crazy girl not going away.

You'll already have her tied up.  Just throw her in you trunk....

Quoted: Quoted: You're on a slippery slope. Consider carefully the longer term implications. What are the "long-term implications"? Wild, kinky, uninhibited sex?

He might like it too much and end up like this guy.

kinkyLinky

Ever hear of the  habit forming need for more and more?

Quoted: Get her to bring some old pantyhose.

Finally someone with experience.  Pantyhose pull tight with a knot in them, they don't scuff the wooded bed post, and they don't cut the skin.

Friend of mine's wife always wanted him to use his hand cuffs on her and 'cuff her to something.'  Handcuffs loose sex appeal when you cuff maggots all day so he kept telling her no.  One day she kept on him and kept on him so he told her to go get naked in the bedroom.  Well he walks in and tells her to bendover by the EZ Glider.  He then cuffs her to the bottom of the EZ Glider exercise machine and leaves her there for about 4 hours naked.  She wasn't very happy with that one.

Invest in a Rachel's "Bed Spread" kit - works great with one of those foldable A-frame futons, btw.

Quoted: He might like it too much and end up like this guy. kinkyLinky Ever hear of the  habit forming need for more and more?

Enjoying sex might cause him to start raping and killing women in bars?

Quoted: Quoted: I have no experience here guys, any help on what I should use I tried a belt but she escaped and laughed at me, then I tried 550 cord put in the heat of the moment it takes to long, I was thinking of cuffs but dont know if that would be pushing things? How about like ties? I heard they are good because they are soft but you can tie a good knot?? Ok I'll be first to respond. two words.   Medical restraints.

+100...and a hospital bed. Been there done that.

Long ratcheting tie-downs work well with the leather cuff thingies, they go under the bed and you can adjust the length and tension.  PLUS they don't look like sex toys when the neighbors 5 year-old pulls them out of the closet.

Just make sure it puts the lotion on its skin.

Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: You're on a slippery slope. Consider carefully the longer term implications. What are the "long-term implications"? Wild, kinky, uninhibited sex? He might like it too much and end up like this guy. kinkyLinky Ever hear of the  habit forming need for more and more? Enjoying sex might cause him to start raping and killing women in bars?

Gotta start somewhere pal. Mine is a cautionary tale

Quoted: Just make sure it puts the lotion on its skin.

Go to an adult store, buy some fur lined cuffs with velcro.  Hell, buy two pairs.  One for the hands, the other for the feet.  

Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: You're on a slippery slope. Consider carefully the longer term implications. What are the "long-term implications"? Wild, kinky, uninhibited sex? He might like it too much and end up like this guy. kinkyLinky Ever hear of the  habit forming need for more and more? Enjoying sex might cause him to start raping and killing women in bars? Gotta start somewhere pal. Mine is a cautionary tale

You started enjoying sex and ended up raping and killing women in bars? Please share.

Quoted: I would post a link, but I'm pretty sure it would violate the CoC.

no its cool

Quoted: I would post a link, but I'm pretty sure it would violate the CoC.

IM it to me for an expert opinion (on both violating the CoC and kinkiness).  

2" nylon webbing (mountaineering/climbing supply type) or seat belt web.  Or use many wraps (4-6) of 3/8" nylon rope from wally world.  Make sure that you tie so that it's snug but not constricting, and can't tighten under tension.  Test sensation on fingers/toes regularly to make sure there is blood flow.

I have to ask a personal question, Did she ever say to you " i feel safe around you", or "you make me feel safe"???? I just ask cause it seems this is some kind of universal chick "code word". Just like cutting wrists as a teen, it something that MOST (not all)  women say. just trying to figure out what the hell it means!? Like what? the first time she met me she felt "unsafe" cause she thought i was gonna rape her or something?

Get one of those "Real Doll" inflatable things. Practice your technique on that first.

They are a really good training aid. No whining about you being too rough, no accidental deaths, no coroner's inquests to deal with. Hell they don't even complain when you accidently bite thier nipples off.

You can find a used one on E-Bay for a good price. Just make sure it does not have any oders...well unless you are into that sort of thing.