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Posted: 2/20/2006 9:15:44 AM EDT

Just got a phone call with the convoluted story from the wronged wife's perspective.

I'm gonna do whatever it takes to not get in the middle of this one.

We humans sure make our lives complicated.

Posted: 2/20/2006 9:18:40 AM EDT

[#1]

Things will change.

Posted: 2/20/2006 9:19:32 AM EDT

[#2]

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I'm gonna do whatever it takes to not get in the middle of this one.

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Good luck. You'll need it. If you can actually remain neutral that will be a feat (or a miracle). MJD

Posted: 2/20/2006 9:19:53 AM EDT

[#3]

Best thing to do is to stay out of it.

I got into some deep crap one time by being involved. Girl is screwing a married co-worker, she gives our boss a blow job (I did not know), I was then given the task of having a talk with her about the affair. Started a big stink.

Posted: 2/20/2006 9:22:01 AM EDT

[#4]

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Best thing to do is to stay out of it.

I got into some deep crap one time by being involved. Girl is screwing a married co-worker, she gives our boss a blow job (I did not know), I was then given the task of having a talk with her about the affair. Started a big stink.

Why? 'Cause you didn't get one.... or because you did??

Enquiring minds want to know.

Posted: 2/20/2006 9:24:18 AM EDT

[#5]

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Best thing to do is to stay out of it.

I got into some deep crap one time by being involved. Girl is screwing a married co-worker, she gives our boss a blow job (I did not know), I was then given the task of having a talk with her about the affair. Started a big stink.

Why? 'Cause you didn't get one.... or because you did??

Enquiring minds want to know.

He said he didn't get the pink--he got the stink.

Posted: 2/20/2006 9:25:40 AM EDT

[#6]

stay out of it. seriously.

i've seen enough of this with my own eyes over the past year to know that the absolute last thing you want to do is get involved.

Posted: 2/20/2006 9:27:14 AM EDT

[#7]

Caller ID may save your life on this one, Rodent.

Posted: 2/20/2006 9:30:59 AM EDT

[#8]

Anytime someone wants to tell about that kind of crap, I stick my fingers in my ears and start singing Sink The Bismark as loud as I can until they go away.

For some reason they usually leave before I get to the good part.

Posted: 2/20/2006 9:32:04 AM EDT

[#9]

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Best thing to do is to stay out of it.

I got into some deep crap one time by being involved. Girl is screwing a married co-worker, she gives our boss a blow job (I did not know), I was then given the task of having a talk with her about the affair. Started a big stink.

Why? 'Cause you didn't get one.... or because you did??

Enquiring minds want to know.

She was hot, but no. I was sent by the boss who had just gotten a BJ from the chick to do his dirty work. The higher ups wanted my boss to get her to stop seeing the married co-worker. He couldn't do it because she had just slurped his dick. It all blew up from there.

Posted: 2/20/2006 9:32:32 AM EDT

[#10]

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Caller ID may save your life on this one, Rodent.

I may do the same thing I do when the airline crew scheduler calls: <Chinese accent> "Lodent not here." <Chinese accent>

Posted: 2/20/2006 9:33:13 AM EDT

[#11]

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Best thing to do is to stay out of it.

I got into some deep crap one time by being involved. Girl is screwing a married co-worker, she gives our boss a blow job (I did not know), I was then given the task of having a talk with her about the affair. Started a big stink.

Damn where do you work?

Posted: 2/20/2006 9:33:56 AM EDT

[#12]

Best thing to do if you aren't directly involved....... keep out of it. it can cause nothing but hard feelings later on.

Posted: 2/20/2006 9:34:37 AM EDT

[#13]

Uh oh, a friend is having an affair with a friend

What are friends for??

Posted: 2/20/2006 9:36:38 AM EDT

[#14]

Your answering machine needs messages alternating between, "At the barn, then I'll be on a trip", to just, "I'm on a trip".

You might need to fence the compound.

Posted: 2/20/2006 9:41:05 AM EDT

[#15]

Tell her to join the local christian taliban..it will sure change her life. She'll blow up abortion clinics, run in the streets with a bible, warning people of hell, be frigid as an iceberg and she'll also talk about Jesus to everyone she knows. A putrid woman she will become.

This will keep her away from having affairs.

Posted: 2/20/2006 9:47:22 AM EDT

[#16]

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Tell her to join the local christian taliban..it will sure change her life. She'll blow up abortion clinics, run in the streets with a bible, warning people of hell, be frigid as an iceberg and she'll also talk about Jesus to everyone she knows. A putrid woman she will become.

This will keep her away from having affairs.

Rodent, you shouldn't use your troll account in your own thread!

Posted: 2/20/2006 9:51:18 AM EDT

[#17]

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Tell her to join the local christian taliban..it will sure change her life. She'll blow up abortion clinics, run in the streets with a bible, warning people of hell, be frigid as an iceberg and she'll also talk about Jesus to everyone she knows. A putrid woman she will become.

This will keep her away from having affairs.

Rodent, you shouldn't use your troll account in your own thread!

Uh oh, the shrill IM's to EdSr about me have probably already started again

Posted: 2/20/2006 9:56:23 AM EDT

[#18]

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Tell her to join the local christian taliban..it will sure change her life. She'll blow up abortion clinics, run in the streets with a bible, warning people of hell, be frigid as an iceberg and she'll also talk about Jesus to everyone she knows. A putrid woman she will become.

This will keep her away from having affairs.

I'm confused...the call Rodent got was from the "wronged wife" not the "wronged husband" (assuming there even is a wronged husband.)

I took that to mean it was the guy screwing around, and not the girl.

Posted: 2/20/2006 10:01:45 AM EDT

[#19]

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I'm confused...the call Rodent got was from the "wronged wife" not the "wronged husband" (assuming there even is a wronged husband.)

I took that to mean it was the guy screwing around, and not the girl.

One of each. (And, if the distraught source is correct, perhaps more than one of each.) This is a politically-correct, equal-opportunity fling(s).

Posted: 2/20/2006 10:05:59 AM EDT

[#20]

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Best thing to do is to stay out of it.

I got into some deep crap one time by being involved. Girl is screwing a married co-worker, she gives our boss a blow job (I did not know), I was then given the task of having a talk with her about the affair. Started a big stink.

Damn where do you work?

Sounds like the typical cop shop.

Posted: 2/20/2006 10:17:00 AM EDT

[#21]

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...she had just slurped his dick.

Can I get that at 7-11?

Posted: 2/20/2006 10:18:43 AM EDT

[#22]

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Best thing to do is to stay out of it.

I got into some deep crap one time by being involved. Girl is screwing a married co-worker, she gives our boss a blow job (I did not know), I was then given the task of having a talk with her about the affair. Started a big stink.

Damn where do you work?

Sounds like the typical cop shop.

Corporate world. Try again.

Posted: 2/20/2006 10:20:52 AM EDT

[#23]

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Best thing to do is to stay out of it.

I got into some deep crap one time by being involved. Girl is screwing a married co-worker, she gives our boss a blow job (I did not know), I was then given the task of having a talk with her about the affair. Started a big stink.

Damn where do you work?

Sounds like the typical cop shop.

Corporate world. Try again.

Government employees, too.....

Posted: 2/20/2006 10:25:40 AM EDT

[#24]

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I'm confused...the call Rodent got was from the "wronged wife" not the "wronged husband" (assuming there even is a wronged husband.)

I took that to mean it was the guy screwing around, and not the girl.

One of each. (And, if the distraught source is correct, perhaps more than one of each.) This is a politically-correct, equal-opportunity fling(s).

Is Bama-shooter your troll account?

Posted: 2/20/2006 10:27:09 AM EDT

[#25]

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Tell her to join the local christian taliban..it will sure change her life. She'll blow up abortion clinics, run in the streets with a bible, warning people of hell, be frigid as an iceberg and she'll also talk about Jesus to everyone she knows. A putrid woman she will become.

This will keep her away from having affairs.

Rodent, you shouldn't use your troll account in your own thread!

Uh oh, the shrill IM's to EdSr about me have probably already started again

Then maybe you should choose your words about the founding father's religion more carefully.

If you hate God..best you can do is hide it, don't go comparing it to a murderous organization.

Posted: 2/20/2006 10:32:08 AM EDT

[#26]

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Best thing to do is to stay out of it.

I got into some deep crap one time by being involved. Girl is screwing a married co-worker, she gives our boss a blow job (I did not know), I was then given the task of having a talk with her about the affair. Started a big stink.

Why? 'Cause you didn't get one.... or because you did??

Enquiring minds want to know.

She was hot, but no. I was sent by the boss who had just gotten a BJ from the chick to do his dirty work. The higher ups wanted my boss to get her to stop seeing the married co-worker. He couldn't do it because she had just slurped his dick. It all blew up from there.

Given the subject, that is a bad choice of a word to use.

Posted: 2/20/2006 10:32:13 AM EDT

[#27]

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Best thing to do is to stay out of it.

I got into some deep crap one time by being involved. Girl is screwing a married co-worker, she gives our boss a blow job (I did not know), I was then given the task of having a talk with her about the affair. Started a big stink.

Damn where do you work?

Sounds like the typical cop shop.

Corporate world. Try again.

You hiring? Sounds like a "fun" place to work.

BTW my wife would ~~probably~~ kill me if I cheated on her.

Posted: 2/20/2006 10:34:21 AM EDT

[#28]

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Best thing to do if you aren't directly involved....... keep out of it. it can cause nothing but hard feelings later on.

You said hard!

96Ag

Posted: 2/20/2006 10:36:09 AM EDT

[#29]

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Tell her to join the local christian taliban..it will sure change her life. She'll blow up abortion clinics, run in the streets with a bible, warning people of hell, be frigid as an iceberg and she'll also talk about Jesus to everyone she knows. A putrid woman she will become.

This will keep her away from having affairs.

Rodent, you shouldn't use your troll account in your own thread!

Uh oh, the shrill IM's to EdSr about me have probably already started again

Then maybe you should choose your words about the founding father's religion more carefully.

If you hate God..best you can do is hide it, don't go comparing it to a murderous organization.

??Uh, he and I were both joking, Naked. You aren't really my troll account.

Put your Koran down for a few minutes and lighten up.

Posted: 2/20/2006 1:18:49 PM EDT

[#30]

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stay out of it. seriously.

i've seen enough of this with my own eyes over the past year to know that the absolute last thing you want to do is get involved.

+1 Billion

I got involved once, and it was not friggen worth it.

Posted: 2/20/2006 1:22:49 PM EDT

[#31]

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Anytime someone wants to tell about that kind of crap, I stick my fingers in my ears and start singing Sink The Bismark as loud as I can ...

BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA !!!!!

Shit man ... lol

Posted: 2/20/2006 1:44:50 PM EDT

[#32]

Rodent
No good can come of this.
Move to North Dakota, if thats what it takes to stay out of it.

Posted: 2/20/2006 1:45:35 PM EDT

[#33]

Do you live in a real-life soap opera?

Posted: 2/20/2006 2:10:57 PM EDT

[#34]

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Best thing to do is to stay out of it.

I got into some deep crap one time by being involved. Girl is screwing a married co-worker, she gives our boss a blow job (I did not know), I was then given the task of having a talk with her about the affair. Started a big stink.

Damn where do you work?

Sounds like the typical cop shop.

Corporate world. Try again.

Government employees, too.....

You can definitely include aerospace--especially around the holidays (christmas parties at worst.

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Posted: 2/20/2006 2:48:14 PM EDT

[#35]

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Tell her to join the local christian taliban..it will sure change her life. She'll blow up abortion clinics, run in the streets with a bible, warning people of hell, be frigid as an iceberg and she'll also talk about Jesus to everyone she knows. A putrid woman she will become.

This will keep her away from having affairs.

Rodent, you shouldn't use your troll account in your own thread!

Uh oh, the shrill IM's to EdSr about me have probably already started again

Then maybe you should choose your words about the founding father's religion more carefully.

If you hate God..best you can do is hide it, don't go comparing it to a murderous organization.

Actually, the founding fathers were Diests.

Posted: 2/20/2006 2:50:46 PM EDT

[#36]

Thread is worthless without pics!!!!!

Posted: 2/20/2006 2:55:26 PM EDT

[#37]

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...If you hate God..best you can do is hide it...

How do you leap to the conclusion that I hate any of the gods, anyway? I just made a crack about you IMing Ed with your persecution complex.

Posted: 2/20/2006 2:56:22 PM EDT

[#38]

Well, this thread took an interesting turn. I should have read further before responding.

Posted: 2/20/2006 2:59:21 PM EDT

[#39]

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Well, this thread took an interesting turn. I should have read further before responding.

Go ahead and post, it might get back on track.

Posted: 2/20/2006 3:00:45 PM EDT

[#40]

We need more details please.

Posted: 2/20/2006 3:24:12 PM EDT

[#41]

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We need more details please.

Hmm, I only have one side of it. (And I'm actively avoiding the other parties involved.) We all live in a small town, though, we all board horses at the same barn, and we all belong to the same (fox) hunt club. It's just standard messy affair stuff with accusations and exaggerations and counter-accusations and counter-exaggerations. I don't really care who's right and who's wrong. It's not my business and I don't want to take sides or spend days of my life listening to the sad stories. The problem is that they're all nice people and they're all friends.

Posted: 2/20/2006 3:27:55 PM EDT

[#42]

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Best thing to do is to stay out of it.

I got into some deep crap one time by being involved. Girl is screwing a married co-worker, she gives our boss a blow job (I did not know), I was then given the task of having a talk with her about the affair. Started a big stink.

Why? 'Cause you didn't get one.... or because you did??

Enquiring minds want to know.

She was hot, but no. I was sent by the boss who had just gotten a BJ from the chick to do his dirty work. The higher ups wanted my boss to get her to stop seeing the married co-worker. He couldn't do it because she had just slurped his dick. It all blew up from there.

Hey, you know I was just pulling your chain, don't you? I wasn't expecting nor need an explanation.

But thanks for the update.

Merlin

Posted: 2/20/2006 3:29:57 PM EDT

[#43]

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We need more details please.

The problem is that they're all nice people and they're all friends.

"they're" meaning "they were" all friends, right?

Posted: 2/20/2006 3:31:08 PM EDT

[#44]

Posted: 2/20/2006 3:38:23 PM EDT

[#45]

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The problem is that they're all nice people and they're all friends.

"they're" meaning "they were" all friends, right?

Oops, I meant to say "we". My girlfriend and I like them all and socialize with them all on a regular basis. Well, used to, anyway.

It'll be interesting to see how it all shakes out. I'd just prefer not to hear about it until the end-game synopsis.

Posted: 2/20/2006 3:42:43 PM EDT

[#46]

Turn the ringer off on your phone. Let the answering machine do its job for the next month or so. Don't reply to any calls from any of the parties involved. If you do, 'innocent bystander' might be next to your name in the paper.

Posted: 2/20/2006 3:46:03 PM EDT

[#47]

I think you need two less "friends."

Posted: 2/20/2006 3:53:03 PM EDT

[#48]

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Tell her to join the local christian taliban..it will sure change her life. She'll blow up abortion clinics, run in the streets with a bible, warning people of hell, be frigid as an iceberg and she'll also talk about Jesus to everyone she knows. A putrid woman she will become.

This will keep her away from having affairs.hinking.gif

Rodent, you shouldn't use your troll account in your own thread!hr

Uh oh, the shrill IM's to EdSr about me have probably already started again hr

Then maybe you should choose your words about the founding father's religion more carefully.

If you hate God..best you can do is hide it, don't go comparing it to a murderous organization.

Actually, the founding fathers were Diests.

hr

This is not true at all. Almost every one of the founding fathers who authored and signed the Declaration of Independence were religious men. This is not to say they roamed the streets condeming people to hell, but they all believed in God and incorporated their beliefs into the laws of this land. If you read their personal writings of the time (what is left anyway), they all profess belief in the Lord and give him credit for their successes and ask his blessing on this land. Jefferson, Madison and a few others off the top of my head are considered by many to be deists, but their personal lives and writings speak a different truth.

Posted: 2/20/2006 4:07:03 PM EDT

[#49]

Yea, don't call or do anything with either party if you want to be impartial. Don't take sides if you are forced into a conversation. Try to get off that topic etc. Straight up tell them that it isn't any of your business and you don't want to be part of it. Still want to be their friend and all, but it's not your place to say.

Best of luck, that sucks!

Posted: 2/20/2006 4:34:58 PM EDT

[#50]

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Just got a phone call with the convoluted story from the wronged wife's perspective.

I'm gonna do whatever it takes to not get in the middle of this one.

We humans sure make our lives complicated.

I was once in a situation where two good friends of mine were dating. The girl was a friend who I would have liked to have dated back then, but she was taken so I wouldn't even consider it. Wouldn't have worked out anyway (in hindsight at ~30 years old, 18 year old dating stuff is so obvious, but I was clueless at the time).

We go away to college. The girl went to the college I go to, the guy went to another college. Girl starts cheating on her boyfriend. With my druggie roommate. Pissed me off on SO many levels...and put me in a very uncomfortable spot.

I hate being in the middle of that kind of crap.

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