I've had lots of steady girlfriends.
I'm divorced, and remarried.
MY theory is that women who have nothing to offer the world except for sex
are the ones who loose interest after they are married.
They have sex because they know it is what they have to do to get married and have kids.
Once they get married, they feel that the man is trapped.
My ex's found all kinds of excuses for their lack of desire.
My current wife didn't feel that she needed a man.
She was successful on her own, and capable of supporting herself.
She was lonely, but not unhappy by herself.
We are in our mid 30s, married for only 4 years, but the sex is as good as when we dated.
(better, since I've had time to learn what she likes)
But ALL of the previous 4 women in my life used sex to keep me,
then jerked it away when they thought they had me forever.
None of them have a career. All of them have kids.
My advice... if your woman skated through high school with no outlook to her future,
and doesn't have a career goal in mind, kiss your sex life goodby. She is using it for bait.
Strange though... my mother fits that description. Yet I know my parents have a healthy sex life.
*shudder*
She must have been the exception to the rule.
OH, I guess another key trait of the girls I'm talking about is that they all
wanted to hang out with friends to "have fun".
My wife enjoys being with me. She doesn't need to hang out with friends to have fun.