when you enlist in the military ,you have to realize that it just possibly may involve being sent into a combat theater. [whether you agree with the cause or not] nobody put a knife to your neck and made you sign. to MS. sheehan: ask your media friends why they don't show on national TV the iraqi people who are elated the US forces have freed them from such an evil dictator and now have no fear of any secret police implicating them on phony charges and ruining their lives and familys. your son died so that others can live in a free society [as we do here in the US] where one can be free to speak out on issues they disagree with, with no fear of secret police visiting them in the middle of the night. your son died so that others can live as you do and have the freedoms as you do, when he meets his maker face to face he will be judged as being courages and dieing for a noble cause [human dignity and freedom] no doubt he died displaying courage[ which is best defined as being scared to death but you do it anyway] as in the case of SGT. YORK sometimes you just have to trust in something a heap bit bigger than you that you're doing the right thing and those who are doing wrong will be judged in the afterlife accordingly and will receive their just punishment from the almighty.