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Posted: 5/20/2005 3:20:22 PM EDT
[#1]
Too protective.
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Posted: 5/20/2005 3:21:52 PM EDT
[#2]
Is he an ok dude? It is your job to protect your sis if you know the guy is a douchebag. If she comes down with an std, she will kick your ass for not warning her
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Posted: 5/20/2005 3:22:00 PM EDT
[#3]
Definitely fuck his sister, or mom. What's fair is fair.
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Posted: 5/20/2005 3:22:14 PM EDT
[#4]
It depends on what she looks like. Post a pic of your sister so we may better analyze your situation.
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Posted: 5/20/2005 3:23:02 PM EDT
[#5]
If you can call him your friend I don't see why it would be a problem.
This reminds me of some scenes in the movie Scarface. My buddy has a good looking sister and when I accidentally look at her in front of him I can hear that damned music. 
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Posted: 5/20/2005 3:23:30 PM EDT
[#6]
Is she an adult?
If so, it's her business. |
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Posted: 5/20/2005 3:24:00 PM EDT
[#7]
I don't care if they date. That is her business. I just think a REAL friend would have the courtesy to say something before he starts trying to fondle my fucking sister. It's not about the dating, it's about the lack of respect shown to me. |
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Posted: 5/20/2005 3:25:28 PM EDT
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He's probably afraid of your reaction. If he thought he was going to lose and/or fight a friend over it, I'm sure he wouldn't feel comfortable telling you right off the bat.
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Posted: 5/20/2005 3:26:32 PM EDT
[#9]
+1 |
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Posted: 5/20/2005 3:26:38 PM EDT
[#10]
Ok, let me rephrase this one. If you had a buddy....would you consider his sister fair game? I look at it like this....you know 80% of relationships go nowhere. Then sis comes crying to me what a dick he is. So he knew right off the bat there was an 80% chance we wouldn't be firends in the long run. I see that as a character flaw....but after this, let the poll results fall where they may! I came for opinions, just wanted all relavent info there.
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Posted: 5/20/2005 3:27:02 PM EDT
[#11]
Unless you have been fucking your sister and now you are jealous get over it.
You are not one of those inbreeders are you?  IF this is between 2 consenting adults then you have no stake in it, unless the first statement above is true. 
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Posted: 5/20/2005 3:28:01 PM EDT
[#12]
EXACTLY! If he thought he was going to lose or fight a friend over it....why is he doing it? It certainly shows he cares more about dicking my sister than us remaining friends...wouldn't you say? |
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Posted: 5/20/2005 3:31:50 PM EDT
[#13]
Does he actually like your sister? If you really wanted to fuck with him, you would have invited them both out together at the same time and confronted them. If it's just sex, that's messed up but find out first before you judge the situation.
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Posted: 5/20/2005 3:31:54 PM EDT
[#14]
+1 A lot of my friends dated my sister. I didn't think it was cool, but it was because I thought: "Who the f@&k would want to hang out with my sister?" The only one I can think of that wasn't a friend of mine first is her husband, whom I only met over a year later and was a great friend from the get go. Thinking back and being a little egotistical, I think she made the right choices after all they were good enough to be my friends. Your friend and your sister hadn't said anything to you because they were probably anticipating a hysterical reaction wether they were bumping uglies or not. |
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Posted: 5/20/2005 3:35:12 PM EDT
[#15]
Well he aint gonna say if he doesn't now is he? He has one girl pregnant right now.....they might have broke up last week. I wasn't trying to let that color my opinion of him since he's ponying up to help raise the child. Kinda weird none the less. |
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Posted: 5/20/2005 3:35:47 PM EDT
[#16]
And it sounds like that is exactly what they got. If she is an adult, you have no dog in the fight. Bob |
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Posted: 5/20/2005 3:35:47 PM EDT
[#17]
+1000 .....besides, never let a woman come between friends; ANY WOMAN. |
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Posted: 5/20/2005 3:37:06 PM EDT
[#18]
+1 |
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Posted: 5/20/2005 3:37:14 PM EDT
[#19]
So would you be less upset if the pregnancy did not exist? Are you looking at your friend as just adding another notch in his belt? |
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Posted: 5/20/2005 3:37:45 PM EDT
[#20]
If I had a little sister...
And my friend wanted to date her. If they were simmilar in age. If He asked me first. If he was serious and not just screwing her. Then I would alow it. with my blessing... If any one those... Especialy the last one were not true than Man he would need to watch out for me. Or I just might... |
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Posted: 5/20/2005 3:38:19 PM EDT
[#21]
Well they both know what they're doing. If you're going to be mad at anyone, it can't be just your buddy. Let it go and see how it progresses. If anything bad happens, intervene. If not, let them enjoy each others company.
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Posted: 5/20/2005 3:39:39 PM EDT
[#22]
hatebreed talks to his rifle.
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Posted: 5/20/2005 3:41:02 PM EDT
[#23]
he'd have to ask first and not just start banging, and even then it would depend on the friend. a few of my friends I wouldn't have a problem with, but a few others I would, especially my one not really close friend who constantly cheats on who ever he is dating at the time
but I don't have any sisters |
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Posted: 5/20/2005 3:41:29 PM EDT
[#24]
I might be. There's kind of a line there where I think the girl still thinks he is her boyfriend. As to the adult part....yeah, she's an adult. But she is a young adult, who I let move here into my house, rent free for the sole purpose of improving her life. I got her a job at my wifes business with the sole understanding she would try and become excellent at that job, with the possibilty of making $1000 a week in commission for a part time week. Staying at his house til 5am, him with a kid by someone else on the way, fucking going into work all tired from late night make out sessions aint exactly my idea of taking care of priorites. I just think it is hilbilly bullshit all around. Again though, they are BOTH welcome to do what they want....I want to know if it's wrong for me to cut him off. |
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Posted: 5/20/2005 3:45:12 PM EDT
[#25]
I would not cut him off. Sit him down and have a few beers and TALK. But if your sister is staying at your house then she should follow some sort of rules. I would not want someone staying at my house and just coming and going at all hours of the day and night. It's not POLITE. |
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Posted: 5/20/2005 3:45:59 PM EDT
[#26]
That could make things alot worse. If you're upset about this, how would you react if she moved in with him. I'm telling you, find a way to talk to both of them at seperate times without them communicating about it, and find out if they like each other or if they're just knockin' boots. |
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Posted: 5/20/2005 3:49:30 PM EDT
[#27]
Yeah, and going to his house in my car no less. I don't know, I figure let her have natural consequences. If she fucks off late and does bad at work, she gets fired, just like anybody else. If she gets involved in a hillbilly love triangle, i don't want to hear her whine when it backfires.. As to talking with him.....I don't really have anything to say. What should I say? "You better be nice to my sister!" I think that is kind of a given if we ever were friends at all. All I know is where I grew up, unless you REALLLY liked a buddies sister, that shit was off limits. And even if you did REALLY like her, you better be damn careful how you tread. |
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Posted: 5/20/2005 3:50:10 PM EDT
[#28]
Relax, you said he was an OK guy and she's a big girl.
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Posted: 5/20/2005 3:51:13 PM EDT
[#29]
If you like the guy, let it go.
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Posted: 5/20/2005 3:52:02 PM EDT
[#30]
If you don't mind me asking, how old is your sister and your buddy. I definately agree she should be more respectful to your generousity. Tell her she needs to be coming home at decent times especially if she's using your car.
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Posted: 5/20/2005 3:52:27 PM EDT
[#31]
Just to clarify again, I'm not upset they are dating. His pansy assed, hide it from me, sneaky, smooth guy bullshit is why he's over with. If you aint got the balls to tell me straight up you intend to date my sister you don't have enough character to be a friend of mine. It just seems like there is a code of conduct for this sort of thing, ya know, where you don't disrespect your friend to fuck his sister. If she moves in with him...that's cool. He can pay her rent. |
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Posted: 5/20/2005 3:54:09 PM EDT
[#32]
Tell him how you feel, that's what you tell him. Then discuss it from there. Sometimes we who have little sisters have to realize they just want some. |
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Posted: 5/20/2005 3:57:30 PM EDT
[#33]
She is 21, he is 29. As for coming and going, we are all late nighters. I'm more concerned that she focus on doing an excellent job at work and get ahead in life than focus all that effort on playing touchy feel with boys. I don't like trying to do something for someone and them not appreciate it. Before I'd tell her what to do I'd just tell her she blew it and send her back to mom. As everyone has said, she is a big girl and is way past house rules and warnings. As for the car and all, she is respectful, puts in gas, takes good care of it and with my permission. We have "extra" cars, so it's basically a non issue. I have encouraged her to borrow mine when she needs to and save up for a nice new car of her own instead of the junker she can probably afford right now. |
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Posted: 5/20/2005 3:58:47 PM EDT
[#34]
I married my buddie's little sister.
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Posted: 5/20/2005 3:59:51 PM EDT
[#35]
Haha! This I have realized man. Also, just for further info. She dated another buddy. He was cool about it, respectful and no hard feelings. Before that went anywhere she decided he was a dork and dumped him though. None the less, the key is respect man. He should have had the balls to act like a man about it, like the other guy did. |
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Posted: 5/20/2005 4:00:27 PM EDT
[#36]
21 is still pretty young. Maybe you could have your wife or another family member talk to her? Tell her she needs to be serious and keep things mature and responsible. Same goes for your buddy. He may want to keep it hush hush, but that's not the right thing to do. Let him know in a friend to friend chat that you know what's going on and you just want the truth.
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Posted: 5/20/2005 4:02:27 PM EDT
[#37]
I wouldn't have a friend that I wouldn't want to date my sister. If someone is good enough to be my friend- that is the kind of guy I want my sister to be with!
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Posted: 5/20/2005 4:02:51 PM EDT
[#38]
If he's a freind then he is probably a good guy that would protect your sister at all costs. Better you know something about the guy then some asshat she might run into somewhere else.
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Posted: 5/20/2005 4:04:22 PM EDT
[#39]
My .02
You're too protective. Anyone I would consider a friend I would be more than in favor of them dating my sister. Because I know they are good people. If they aren't good people and I wouldn't want my sister dating them I don't consider them friends, they might be aquaintances but not friends. |
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Posted: 5/20/2005 4:11:03 PM EDT
[#40]
Good analogy. Big difference between friends and aquaintances. |
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Posted: 5/20/2005 4:14:31 PM EDT
[#41]
If the guy doesn't deserve a woman of your sister's caliber, then the clear answer is no, it's not ok. If the guy is decent and you might even approve of him dating her if he was a stranger, it's still no - because chances are high that in a week, month, year, or decade, they'll break up, and it won't be very pleasant, and then you'll be stuck between your friend and your sister. Your friend should realize the possibility that this outcome would harm your friendship and stay away to begin with. Bottom line, freinds don't date relatives of freinds. |
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Posted: 5/20/2005 4:19:30 PM EDT
[#42]
Personally, I think you're right on the money. Etiquette dictates that he should have spoken with you first and made sure it was cool. |
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Posted: 5/20/2005 4:24:35 PM EDT
[#43]
I agree and think the so called friend is being a chump. You have a good head on your shoulders from what I have read. Fuck that overprotective BS it isn't about that. |
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Posted: 5/20/2005 4:26:22 PM EDT
[#44]
doesn't matter much to me, everyone has aleady slept with my little sister anyways
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Posted: 5/20/2005 4:29:48 PM EDT
[#45]
Twas none your business.
Her choice. Now on the other hand had your friend made advances that were not welcomed and kept it up... |
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Posted: 5/20/2005 4:36:04 PM EDT
[#46]
I dated my friend's sister but we didn't fuck. We went to the same school, she's sweet and good-looking, thought we were cut from the same cloth, but we weren't, found that out from dating her. My friends thought it was weird I was dating her. Her brother (my good friend) never said a word or expressed disapproval.
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Posted: 5/20/2005 4:39:27 PM EDT
[#47]
My closest friend was elated when I hooked up with his little sister. He had no knowledge before coming over to my house one evening and walking in the back door, only to see his sister walk out of the bathroom in nothing but a towel. He didn't even seem that surprised!
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Posted: 5/20/2005 4:39:30 PM EDT
[#48]
You've got the right to be pissed. The guy is being shady. Sounds like your sister may be thinking that since you're the cool big brother she's allowed to get away with some things. She needs rules. I know, acting as brother and guardian is not easy. My sister has hooked up with plenty of my friends. I don't care too much, she's 27. But when I hear of a guy that disrespected her, then we're not friends. You're going to have to deal with your sister being with dudes. I could see how you still see her as a child. But, do remember the fun you had at 21 staying out till 5am with someone new. Talk to her. You don't have to talk to your friend. He created this. If he wants to fix it, he can. But he's a chump. |
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Posted: 5/20/2005 4:43:51 PM EDT
[#49]
I could care less.
If my friend just wanted to bang my sister and she let him, that's her choice isn't it? If he told me all he wanted to do was bang my sister, that's his choice isn't it? If he's banged other girls just to bang them, I should know he would want to just bang my sister shouldn't I? Or maybe they just really like eachother, in which case it's no different than above, really none of my business. If he started smacking her around, then it's my business! |
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Posted: 5/20/2005 4:46:06 PM EDT
[#50]
Wasn't this an episode on Friends?
Seriousley, don't loose a friend over it. They're both adults. |
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