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Posted: 1/12/2005 5:56:41 AM EDT
Okay I used to hook up with this girl along time ago she had a b/f at the time . We were so close I mean if she wasnt with her b/f I bet we would still be together . It seemed like destiny at the time but her and her b/f have a child together so I decided to back off . Now I have a g/f and am very happy but this other girl is emailing me and sending me pictures of her with picture phone!
I talked to her a bit via email and and she is still cool and understands I have a g/f and told me I will always ber her " boo " .. She wants to go out and party but I can't hook up with her because I have a g/f Ahhh what should I do? .. |
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Good luck, boo |
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Her having a boyfriend didn't stop you from hookin up with her, boo..
Why should you having a girlfriend stop her this time around, boo? Good luck, boo. |
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Well she is kind of young and into hip hop and stuff I met her at a dance club and then chatted with her online .
so thats is where I assume " boo " is coming from ... |
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Read the book of Proverbs "boo". Much wisdom there. Beware the strange woman who flattereth with her lips....
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IF the current GF is someone your seroius with tell the old GF thanks, but no thanks.
If your just in a casual relationship and dont see it going anywhere remember, your NOT married. If you were married you should not respond at all. My .02 |
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There is some simple practical advise. Just make sure your current G/F knows you are simply dating and no more. I would still be careful, this chick sounds like a fruitloop. |
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she uses the word " boo". That alone would make me want to stay away from her.
J |
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think with your dick, boo.
or was it ..think with you head? either way, your going to make things complicated talking to an ex while with someone new, boo. whatever you choose,keep it simple. you will be happier. |
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Tell her your a professional hit man now and Miss Moneypenny will have her neck broken if there is any further contact. This works every time.
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Naw
I am in a serious reletionship we have been living together for about a year . I couldnt cheat on my current g/f but would it be wrong to stay friends with this other girl? And she is sending me pretty yummy pictures! |
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Intorduce the old g/f to the new g/f. Help them become good friends. Maybe they will get together and make a boo sandwich.
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tell her to fuck off. stop sending you anything. post cards,letters,email, nipple rings. you aint serious..... |
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Care to share them Boo? |
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Well, "boo" It depends. Do you like your present GF? If so, go ahead and tell her exactly what's going on. If she says it's cool, you're ok. If she s you, like I know she will, you better send an e-mail saying that you are totally cutting it off back to your little single mom snickerdoodle, and, give a print out to your GF with the sincerest appolgies for being an a-hole for letting this go on so long. |
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I dont care .. what is the website to upload pictures? I dont have the link since I am at work |
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Just my 2 cents...
Obviously you are currently with a person you care about... No matter what you call her - she was something to you before... If you stay in contact with her, then you are only continuing her belief that something could be... If you really want the truth be honest with your current G/F - if you can't you already know your screwing up - if you can, then do what she says - your with her right? L8r and g'luck |
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don't worry, someone will offer to host them for you. we just need pics of both to compare the ex w\KID or newer girlfriend w\o KID. |
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Wise up, boo. Do you really wanna raise someone else's kid? She's just a toy to play with, nothing serious. She obviously likes to fuck, so make sure you double wrap, use spermicide, and pull out to finish yourself off.
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I dont have any pictures right now of my current g/f and the other girl was just a hook up really never a G/f but I do have those pictures if some one wants to provider me the link .. SO i can upload them
And they are taken with a crappy cellphone camera so they are not the best quality |
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If I was living with a guy, and some chick was sending him pictures of her to his cellphone? I'd tear her hair out and park your stuff on the curb.
That's the .02 from a woman. If you care about the girl you're living with then cut it off with the old "ho" now. She sounds like trouble with a capital "T" and is just playing you. Girls who want to just be "friends" with a guy don't send them pictures of themselves. |
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Great stuff thank you for putting it into perspective for me ! I think I am going to have to just tell her that I dont think it is appropriate to talk anymore .. |
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+1 boo is that short for boo boo bear? |
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Good, Boo. but first, post her phone number in GD so all these guys can call her. That'll teach her! |
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Tell her you are someone else's BOO now.
Don't date young women with kids either. ETA: pics please |
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I hope you didn't go south of the border on her! |
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ok, email me the pics and I'll host them. PM sent w/ email address nevermind |
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Naw... Not if they have a b/f that is just disgusting! |
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She's trying way too hard if you ask me. Looks fake ALL AROUND.
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Just checking. |
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She looks good. BUT... that bitch sounds PSYCHO! You are looking long term misery right in the eye. I'd ignore her.
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After seeing those pics, give her my cell number and she can call me!
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okay boo, you posted pics so you have my attention now. So let's keep this simple: She has a b/f, you have a g/f. She also has a kid with this b/f. She wants you. You want her. Both your g/f and her b/f are clueless about this brewing affair. So far, it seems to me your relationship with this gal is founded in you both cheating on your significant others. The ABC approach for the both of you is to decide whether you're flirting cause it's taboo and fun and it's a free piece of ass, or cause you two have a genuine desire to be exclusive with one another. What's that worth? Well, it's worth taking a second look cause if you want to pursue the relationship, you'd both better be straight up and honest. If one of you is just looking to tear off a piece, then make sure you both are aware of this. If you're into having affairs, then why would you lie to both your current g/f AND your mistress? Keep something honest at least. Same applies to her. As for this kid......well, that's another ball of wax. I'm not sure what you're after, but this scenario is missing something.....my first guess is integrity. But that's your moral dilemma not ours and I won't preach to you there cause that's not why you posted here is it! This board isn't 1/2 as moral as it portrays itself anyway. So..... What should you do? 1) stop beating around the bush and see what she REALLY wants out of this 2) weigh that answer and pursue her or leave her completely or if you want, shag her on the side and roll with anything that comes from it. Unless you want to live the remainder of your life as a single guy w/o a family (not that anything is wrong with that), this relationship won't stay status quo for very long. Also, this b/f..... if he found out, what would that fall out entail? 3) post more pics |
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two words: Mud shark. |
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