Quoted: Think your friend as the best man in your wedding.
Now....
Is it still appealing?
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I guess I should give some backround. I wasn't actually dating this girl. We had hung out quite a bit. She had some issues and I was a very good friend of hers. Part of me really liked her but there was a few things that I really didn't like. She smokes, is a binge drinker (as much as a piture and a half of beer in a night), and just had some genuine issues. She was really coming on to my friend hard that night... Anyways I told him I just couldn't give him a yes or no answer as far as him pursuing her. Whelp as you can tell he did it anyways. Part of me is pissed but after seeing the way she was coming onto him (like a stripper) it's hard for me too get irate. Now I can look back and see that she really wasn't right for me anyways but none the less I'm still not too happy with him. Of course, now he's already onto the next piece of ass.
This is one of those situation that really tells you what kind of a friend someone truly is. Before this happened I considered him a pretty close friend. Now he's just an aquaintance that I work out with and occasionally hang out with in my group of friends. He's shipping off for the air force soon so it's pretty much a moot point anyways.
Sometimes it takes a while to really see someone's true colors...