The secret to Latinas is to take charge. That's what they like and are culturaly used to. If they are Americanized and still have the Latina attitude, then your right, they are a pain in the ass and not worth your time. My wife is straight off the banana boat so yes she can be a challenge but she likes me in charge. She doesn't like to shop, ask me for money, can cook and clean and expects me to make most of the decisions. Find the right one and your good to go.