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Posted: 1/24/2021 3:33:00 PM EDT
[#1]
none of the above.
don't get married. |
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Posted: 1/24/2021 3:33:18 PM EDT
[#2]
How about just don’t get married then. Seems like a more adult choice.
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Posted: 1/24/2021 3:34:23 PM EDT
[#3]
If you're that broken/distrustful inside or have that much more assets then a potential mate that you want to protect just stick with hookers or get the pre-nup.
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Posted: 1/24/2021 3:36:19 PM EDT
[#4]
Put all assets in a trust prior to marriage?
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Posted: 1/24/2021 3:37:10 PM EDT
[#5]
Seems like almost everyone I know that married wrong, figured it out within that time span.
I say good idea |
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Posted: 1/24/2021 3:38:56 PM EDT
[#6]
that would certainly decrease the attrition rates for men in their mid 50's marrying girls in their 20's from SE Asia
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Posted: 1/24/2021 3:41:08 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Seems like almost everyone I know that married wrong, figured it out within that time span. I say good idea If it Floats, Flys or Fncks, MUCH better to Rent than to Own... |
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Posted: 1/24/2021 3:42:28 PM EDT
[#8]
How about more commitment instead of less? And, things that would build families rather than buying into the left’s goal of demolishing them?
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Posted: 1/24/2021 3:42:31 PM EDT
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I was thinking 5 w/auto-renew unless one party disagrees. If it’s 2, you just get married every two years. There also needs to be a standard set of next steps:
- have kids: here is the Federal income to support ratio - alimony: to qualify, meet these Federal requirements Etc. |
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Posted: 1/24/2021 3:43:47 PM EDT
[#10]
So basically moving in with a girlfriend, but with more steps and expenses, including expense of a wedding.
Would you have to do a second wedding after two years? Women would love that |
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Posted: 1/24/2021 3:45:08 PM EDT
[#11]
Quote HistoryQuoted: So basically moving in with a girlfriend, but with more steps and expenses, including expense of a wedding. Would you have to do a second wedding after two years? Women would love that
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Posted: 1/24/2021 3:46:31 PM EDT
[#12]
With marriage, in a perfect world, you are showing to society that this is the person you will be building a life with.
Hopefully, if both have dated enough to become mature regarding a long term relationship, you have linked up with someone that meshes with your personality and you with theirs. I do joke with the wife that a marriage license is the only license I know of without an expiration date. But after 35 years I guess I will not be finding that. 
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Posted: 1/24/2021 3:52:30 PM EDT
[#13]
Neva been dun bafo.
 Kharn |
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Posted: 1/24/2021 3:52:40 PM EDT
[#14]
Why bother? The idea of a stable marriage is important for the raising of children, who take a long period of time to raise to maturity.
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Posted: 1/24/2021 3:54:14 PM EDT
[#15]
Last fuckin' thing I need is to keep driving other peoples' rental cars. 
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Posted: 1/24/2021 3:54:16 PM EDT
[#16]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Why bother? The idea of a stable marriage is important for the raising of children, who take a long period of time to raise to maturity. Traditional marriages now aren’t stable anyway. |
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Posted: 1/24/2021 3:55:21 PM EDT
[#17]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Last fuckin' thing I need is to keep driving other peoples' rental cars. 
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Posted: 1/24/2021 3:55:23 PM EDT
[#18]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Last fuckin' thing I need is to keep driving other peoples' rental cars. Guess what...brand new cars with zero mileage are very expensive. |
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Posted: 1/24/2021 3:55:38 PM EDT
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Posted: 1/24/2021 3:58:58 PM EDT
[#20]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Traditional marriages now aren’t stable anyway. What’s the divorce rate of church marriages compared to JoP marriages? |
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Posted: 1/24/2021 4:00:03 PM EDT
[#21]
Quote HistoryQuoted: What’s the divorce rate of church marriages compared to JoP marriages? I think it’s about 50% in the Christian community. |
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Posted: 1/24/2021 4:00:25 PM EDT
[#22]
Why call it “marriage”?
That’s just moving in together. |
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Posted: 1/24/2021 4:01:02 PM EDT
[#23]
Marriage is an eternal bond that continues through all the worlds of God.
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Posted: 1/24/2021 4:01:51 PM EDT
[#24]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Why call it “marriage”? That’s just moving in together. |
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Posted: 1/24/2021 4:02:32 PM EDT
[#25]
Quoted: Can be renewed if all parties agree. This way, no messy divorces. Would this save society or destroy it? Marriage is a religious concept best reserved for those couples who want children together. The government should have nothing to do with it and there should be no opt out clauses. Just adults making lifetime commitments based on their shared values. |
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Posted: 1/24/2021 4:03:08 PM EDT
[#26]
Quote HistoryQuoted: How about more commitment instead of less? And, things that would build families rather than buying into the left’s goal of demolishing them? The left is winning the culture war with women. A childless, cat ranching existence with an advanced humanities degree or a well-compensated middle management position appeals to them more than the traditional nuclear family. If you can get women to buy into marriage more, sure. Until then, more commitment from men will just produce more fucked over men. |
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Posted: 1/24/2021 4:03:39 PM EDT
[#27]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Guess what...brand new cars with zero mileage are very expensive. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Last fuckin' thing I need is to keep driving other peoples' rental cars. Guess what...brand new cars with zero mileage are very expensive. Only if you keep trading them in. Not so bad if you buy new and drive it 'till the wheels fall off. Plus, it's hard to beat that new car smell. 
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Posted: 1/24/2021 4:03:44 PM EDT
[#28]
Quote HistoryQuoted: How about more commitment instead of less? And, things that would build families rather than buying into the left’s goal of demolishing them? Absolutely |
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Posted: 1/24/2021 4:03:44 PM EDT
[#29]
Quote HistoryQuoted: How about more commitment instead of less? And, things that would build families rather than buying into the left’s goal of demolishing them? Absolutely |
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Posted: 1/24/2021 4:05:02 PM EDT
[#30]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Traditional marriages now aren’t stable anyway. Speak for yourself |
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Posted: 1/24/2021 4:05:04 PM EDT
[#31]
Quote HistoryQuoted: The left is winning the culture war with women. A childless, cat ranching existence with an advanced humanities degree or a well-compensated middle management position appeals to them more than the traditional nuclear family. If you can get women to buy into marriage more, sure. Until then, more commitment from men will just produce more fucked over  Attached File |
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Posted: 1/24/2021 4:05:41 PM EDT
[#32]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Why call it "marriage"? That's just moving in together. |
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Posted: 1/24/2021 4:07:19 PM EDT
[#33]
2 years? F that, I just rotate them out when necessary. I'll never have the man involved in that aspect of my life again.
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Posted: 1/24/2021 4:07:53 PM EDT
[#34]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Marriage is an eternal bond that continues through all the worlds of God. Not if you've read the Bible. Til death do us part... |
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Posted: 1/24/2021 4:10:43 PM EDT
[#35]
So your kids can wonder every two years if they'll have a joint home?
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Posted: 1/24/2021 4:10:45 PM EDT
[#36]
Quote HistoryQuoted: A 2-yr commitment is still a commitment, and a message to the world. Think of it as a tiered approach. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Why call it “marriage”? That’s just moving in together. Moving in together is a commitment. A temporary play-marriage is jusr a message to the world that you’re a self important retard. Just shack up. Nobody cares about your “message”. |
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Posted: 1/24/2021 4:11:23 PM EDT
[#37]
I could get behind this. Then every 2 years during contract negotiations I could a minimum # of BJ’s in writing.
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Posted: 1/24/2021 4:11:55 PM EDT
[#38]
Quote HistoryQuoted: I could get behind this. Then every 2 years during contract negotiations I could a minimum # of BJ's in writing.  Attached File |
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Posted: 1/24/2021 4:13:44 PM EDT
[#39]
Quote HistoryQuoted: I could get behind this. Then every 2 years during contract negotiations I could a minimum # of BJ’s in writing. It could motivate each party to remain desirable to the other if they want to stay in the union for another 2 or more years. No more letting yourself go now that you bagged a spouse. |
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Posted: 1/24/2021 4:13:54 PM EDT
[#40]
Just get the government out of marriage altogether. It should be between you, your spouse, and God.
The government has destroyed the institution of marriage through divorce and family courts. |
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Posted: 1/24/2021 4:14:52 PM EDT
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Posted: 1/24/2021 4:15:16 PM EDT
[#42]
Quote HistoryQuoted: The left is winning the culture war with women. A childless, cat ranching existence with an advanced humanities degree or a well-compensated middle management position appeals to them more than the traditional nuclear family. If you can get women to buy into marriage more, sure. Until then, more commitment from men will just produce more fucked over men. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: How about more commitment instead of less? And, things that would build families rather than buying into the left’s goal of demolishing them? The left is winning the culture war with women. A childless, cat ranching existence with an advanced humanities degree or a well-compensated middle management position appeals to them more than the traditional nuclear family. If you can get women to buy into marriage more, sure. Until then, more commitment from men will just produce more fucked over men. Sounds good to me. Shacking up, being well compensated, dogs instead of babies and a man who’s free to go if he’s not happy. Until the courts are reformed, I wouldn’t want to put a man I cared about in the position of being married. |
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Posted: 1/24/2021 4:15:25 PM EDT
[#43]
Quoted: Can be renewed if all parties agree. This way, no messy divorces. Would this save society or destroy it? make it 7 years. after 7 years most married couples hate each other |
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Posted: 1/24/2021 4:16:24 PM EDT
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Posted: 1/24/2021 4:16:37 PM EDT
[#45]
How conservative.
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Posted: 1/24/2021 4:24:42 PM EDT
[#46]
You're gonna get fucked no matter what type of premarital agreement you make.
MGTOW |
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Posted: 1/24/2021 4:27:42 PM EDT
[#47]
Quote HistoryQuoted: The left is winning the culture war with women. A childless, cat ranching existence with an advanced humanities degree or a well-compensated middle management position appeals to them more than the traditional nuclear family. If you can get women to buy into marriage more, sure. Until then, more commitment from men will just produce more fucked over men. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: How about more commitment instead of less? And, things that would build families rather than buying into the left's goal of demolishing them? The left is winning the culture war with women. A childless, cat ranching existence with an advanced humanities degree or a well-compensated middle management position appeals to them more than the traditional nuclear family. If you can get women to buy into marriage more, sure. Until then, more commitment from men will just produce more fucked over men. Guys who make poor choices come up with ideas and answers like this. |
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Posted: 1/24/2021 4:29:22 PM EDT
[#48]
No, because my wife is cool as shit.
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Posted: 1/24/2021 4:29:46 PM EDT
[#49]
Quote HistoryQuoted: none of the above. don't get married. This... abolish alimony, child support, and any other "Man traps" that a woman has in her arsenal and watch how fast the divorce rates plummet.. |
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Posted: 1/24/2021 4:31:35 PM EDT
[#50]
Quote HistoryQuoted: This... abolish alimony, child support, and any other "Man traps" that a woman has in her arsenal and watch how fast the divorce rates plummet..
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