here is my problem with the story.
If it was a train issue, THEN the factory is holding it, that sounds fucky. Unless they are saying they had trouble getting it onto a train.
The question I would ask, is, how would they (dealership, ford, whoever) benefit from stringing you along?
That would drive what I did next. I'm betting its a combination of lack of giveafuck plus general incompetence holding things up.