I'm posting this here as not to be chastise. I have a bit of a problem and I'm not too sure how to deal with it.
My husband drives to work each day with a Friend of his. They are buds. The friend is only a few years older than my husband but his kids are grown, married and have kids of their own. His wife isn't a warm loving wife and its been an on going joke she keeps his nuts in her purse. She also is a workaholic.
The friend has the hots for me.
I was invited into the town pep band and have been playing in it a couple of weeks. Its been fun and I could use something to do to get me out of the house and away from work.
This friend will always position himself to share music stands with me. I play Clarinet he plays trumpet. He always stands so close to me his arm brushes up and down my boobs. It gets a little annoying. I'll move away to give us room and I've even made a joke once about it "keep brushing up against my boob like that I'm going think you're getting your jollies off." It embarrassed him but he keeps doing it.
Friday he came over while my husband was away with the kids at an out of town game and 'practiced' unannounced. He was very forward and I had to remind him that we were practicing a few times. He invited me over after wards, he wanted to show me his 'new' puppy.
Tonight we had our first home game where the pep band played. I had a blast but this guy keeps making advances towards me. He invited me over after the game. After the game my husband was suppose to pick me up but was late. I hitched a ride with another band member [a woman] but this guy litterally was trying to get me to get out of the car and let him take me home.
I spoke to my husband about it and he thinks I'm making too much out of it.
To just ignore it. It is hard for me to believe someone would be so blatant to a friend's wife but I've been hit on before. I know what's going on.