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3/24/2012 7:21:26 AM EDT
He's going home today? Regardless of his free enterprise, no one deserves the torment he's going take with him.

Let God take the reins.

Praying for peace and happiness when you get there.
3/24/2012 7:45:35 AM EDT
[#1]
I am behind him all the way as well.
 
3/24/2012 7:54:17 AM EDT
[#2]
3/24/2012 4:29:40 PM EDT
[#3]
What happened?
3/24/2012 7:31:11 PM EDT
[#4]
Cryptic posts on two boards, still cryptic.
3/25/2012 11:43:07 AM EDT
[#5]
Interesting
3/25/2012 11:57:43 AM EDT
[#6]



Quoted:


Cryptic posts on two boards, still cryptic.


That's Cryptic 2.0.



 
3/30/2012 11:36:18 AM EDT
[#7]
Quoted:
What happened?


3/30/2012 12:08:28 PM EDT
[#8]
Confused I am.
3/30/2012 7:04:07 PM EDT
[#9]
I'm back in ga now, the trip looks like it was a success,

Some of the things that happened non withstanding the main issue seems to have been resolved.

For those of you who aren't in the know, I got moved to ga, and we can't sell our house because we are upside down on it.
I had a heart attack in october, I'm fighting for treatment for TBI, and my thyroid has a huge abnormal solid mass in it.

To top that off my family stayed in wa, my wife putting in 60-70 hours a week to try to cover the gaps I our income from my loss of bah and the fact that I'm living on random couches, and sometimes my truck here in ga because they don't do geographical bachelor billeting anymore. My wife was also stuck alone trying to take care of a 1. 3. And 11. Year old by herself.

The stress almost destroyed my marriage, and I had an emotional and mental breakdown. My wife wanted a divorce, mainly my fault, because of the way I have been for the last few years, I have 50 someone's months of combat time now, and I'm not really a nice person anymore, so now I'm trying to work on changing myself

I came home to try and save my marriage and show my wife that I'm turning my life around, because she wanted a divorce. After a lot of listening, and her being angry she decided that we should trytomwork on it.

As of now she and the kids are moving down here as soon as I get housing, which Is turning into a huge nut roll because they fucked up my eligibility date.

We are going to walk on our house, and try to live one day at a time.

Also on the positive side my 1 year old daughter had some lymph nodes removed and biopsied last week and the results came back as not being cancer.
3/30/2012 7:42:51 PM EDT
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Quoted:


Also on the positive side my 1 year old daughter had some lymph nodes removed and biopsied last week and the results came back as not being cancer.


Good to hear.

I  hope all works out for you.

3/30/2012 7:53:41 PM EDT
[#11]
Holy crap.  At least in Afghanistan you could shoot back at your problems.
3/30/2012 8:37:50 PM EDT
[#12]
I'd been keeping most of this to myself, but it got to bad,
I bottomed in jan/feb, and even if it takes getting out of the army and living with my family in a van eating ramen I'm going to get back on track.
3/31/2012 5:36:18 AM EDT
[#13]
It takes a real man to look at his faults and admit them, not only to himself, but also to others.  I wish you the best and hope that all goes well for you.
3/31/2012 2:31:27 PM EDT
[#14]
Redleg,



I am truly sorry such trouble has been heaped on you. Best luck and best wishes on getting things sorted out.






 
4/2/2012 8:57:00 AM EDT
[#15]
Quoted:
It takes a real man to look at his faults and admit them, not only to himself, but also to others.  I wish you the best and hope that all goes well for you.


This!

It sounds like you have made a big first step.
4/2/2012 7:12:44 PM EDT
[#16]
Hang in there.
4/3/2012 8:53:21 AM EDT
[#17]
Ramen's not that bad. I learned some great recipes from inmates.
 
4/15/2012 8:32:27 PM EDT
[#18]
Quoted:
We are going to walk on our house, and try to live one day at a time.


Don't many mortgage companies have some kind of assistance program for those in your situation?
4/22/2012 5:57:27 AM EDT
[#19]
Quoted:
Ramen's not that bad. I learned some great recipes from inmates.  


Throw an egg in there... high protein and tastes great..

<––-Former college student.


I know it sucks, but some of the best memories I have (foodwise), being financially challenged, are from simple things like grilled cheese, or mac n cheese with hot dogs....


I'm betting that with the support of your family, you'll be able to do just about anything... Mad props for admitting your faults. It takes a man to do that.