Why not just get the Surefire that best meets your needs/price range?
I'm not totally sure what you mean by "one upping" your buddy... but Surefires are the industry standard for a reason...
If you want more powerful lights, some eBay-China thing, I'm sure could fit the bill for a lot less, but that's not what you buy a Surefire light for.
You only frankly need so much out of an EDC/duty handheld... I'm certainly not one of the folks bitching about lights being too bright... but in a practical sense, a handheld flashlight is a handheld flashlight, and I still get use out of my old incan G2s and 6Ps as much as I do hyper-lumen-fury-handheld sunlight lights. Remember that some of the heaviest fighting during GWOT was fought with a blisteringly bright 60 lumens of incandescent light...
~Augee