Just thought I'd throw in my 2 cents. I am a DM currently serving in Iraq. I've worked primarily in SW Baghdad (Abu Ghraib area), Fallujah, and Ramadi.
This is what I've found is important on a DMR optic:
1. Durability (obviously something that a major scope manufacturer can do...this is a solved problem, so I'll move on)
2. Close quarters engagement capability, meaning a low-power end (max 2x, preferably 1.1x or 1.5x) for those close-in shots that occur with surpising frequency. Remember, a DM is a regular rifleman first, a DM second
3. RF in the reticle: Everyone has a particular preference on this, but I will say that the mil-dot system is NOT the best solution. Solutions that use quick-figuring based on head size, shoulder size, torso size, etc, are best and most easily used. Man-height is not a good rangefinder, as targets are often not standing.
4. BDC: my preference is a cam, but in general a reticle-BDC is probably faster, so that wins IMHO. I personally am faster with a cam, but I have the feeling that this is unusual.
5. Illumination: yes yes yes yes
I was issued an ACOG, but I also have an IOR M2 4x24 w/ CQB reticle and an IOR 1.1-4 CRT w/ the CQB reticle. I love the BDC cam on the M2, and my personal favorite scope of the three is the IOR 1.1-4. ACOGs just don't work for me, they aren't versatile enough. Very "one-size-fits-all". I would LOVE a 1.5-6x. That would be perfect, as the 1.1-4x I am using doesn't quite reach far enough.