As far the carry handle sight goes, you can also get a flip up rear sight that is spring loasded so you can't accidentally push it down. I would not leave a rear sight flipped down unless it is for storage. Cowitnessing is the fastest, most practical, and safest practice to use when using reflex sights. Personally I would go with a flattop with a removeable carry handle. You can still use any carry handle mount and always have the option of just using the flattop. It's better to just have the option. The key is to be able to keep the reflex sight farther out from your eye than a normal scope. This enhances peripheral vision and prevents eye strain.
A single sling is great, I use it personally. However i also have to use a Blackhawk weapon keeper on my pistol belt to prevent the rifle from swingin around too much when it hangs. With a three point sling you get much less free swinging, although I still recommend the weapon keeper just to keep the rifle secure when not in use. Blackhawk also has some tactical slings with elastic to keep the rifle cinched to the body but still allow it to be rapidly deployed.
The Surefire M900 is a great light. It is the vertical foregrip light. It has LED's to act as navigation lights and a powerful tactical light as well. It has a built in vertical foregrip with all the controls built into the grip. You don't even need a complete RAS to mount it. GG&G, dvanced Armament, and falcon industries al make rail mounts that bolt onto the standard foregrip. Fobus also makes a replacement foregrip with only top and bottom rails that is at a reasonable price. The Surefire M900 is something I would recommend you seriously check out. The M500 series is also good if you don't like vertical foregrips. It does the same thing, but is housed in a replacement standard foregrip.