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Posted: 1/31/2006 2:46:05 PM EDT
[Last Edit: 1/31/2006 2:48:26 PM EDT by DocGun]
I'm 53 years old, look about 45. I'm responsible, in good shape IMHO intelligent, good looking and financially secure. I'm having trouble meeting women at least the "right kind". Not into one-night stands, looking for a solid relationship. I've been out of the "game" for the last 4 years or so. What do women look for in a man these days? What are good places to meet someone nice? Thanks in advance.

Doc
Link Posted: 1/31/2006 3:32:34 PM EDT
Wish I could help you on that one. I've been married 22 years so far so i am waaaaaaaaaay out of the dating game. I wish you luck though.
Link Posted: 1/31/2006 11:20:44 PM EDT

Originally Posted By DocGun:
I'm 53 years old, look about 45.

What do women look for in a man these days?



Awww dang I really hate to break this to you, but women these days are actually looking for 53 year olds that look 53. Sorry about your luck.

Them's the breaks.
Link Posted: 2/1/2006 3:53:06 AM EDT
If I could tell you what women are looking for these days, I would be a millionaire. Seriously, their wants and desires very often change daily according to what the latest Oprah/Dr. Phil/Redbook/Girlfriends/Etc. say that they should want. Each year, it's like inflation. They expect more and more and offer less and less.
Link Posted: 2/1/2006 4:03:40 PM EDT
be

your

self



tha­t is all
Link Posted: 2/1/2006 5:11:40 PM EDT

Originally Posted By diabolical_chicken:
be

your

self


that is all



+1 Be confident in who you are too. Don't change yourself to attract others. Keep busy, don't get discouraged. That sock rolled to the pants leg isn't the best idea either.
Link Posted: 2/1/2006 5:19:55 PM EDT

Originally Posted By pattymcn:
Don't change yourself to attract others.



Unless "yourself" involves sweat pants and food crumbs in your beard.
Link Posted: 2/1/2006 5:25:43 PM EDT

Originally Posted By swingset:

Originally Posted By pattymcn:
Don't change yourself to attract others.



Unless "yourself" involves sweat pants and food crumbs in your beard.



good point!
Link Posted: 2/1/2006 5:40:31 PM EDT
Be yourself.. but, improve yourself at the same time.

There is a difference between

"changing yourself to fit the need of another" and "changing yourself to fid the need of you".

If you don't like the way you are.. you can change, but just make sure you are doing so becauase you want to, not someone else.
Link Posted: 2/2/2006 3:11:18 AM EDT

Originally Posted By VooDoo3dfx:
Be yourself.. but, improve yourself at the same time.

There is a difference between

"changing yourself to fit the need of another" and "changing yourself to fid the need of you".

If you don't like the way you are.. you can change, but just make sure you are doing so becauase you want to, not someone else.



+1

very good point.
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