Posted: 7/29/2005 7:58:09 AM EDT
| Everything is going greater thatn you ever could have wished for in every aspect of your life and then BOOM someone decides to shit on you and make you wish you'd never tried to be happy in the first place? |
| Ugh! So sorry. Know how you feel; I'm still alive. For some reason, the lines from a song gave me a little comfort during "that time", along with my personal faith. The song was sung by Tracy Chapman. "Be Careful of My Heart"... the lines were something like this, "You, took my love. (I) thought you took it all, but I'm not breakin' down. I'm not falling apart. I just lost a little faith when you broke my heart. Given a chance, I might try it again, but I wouldn't risk it all this time. I'd save a little love for myself, enough for my heart to mend." |
VanZant...."Find the grace in the things you cannot change" Good rule to live by. |
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Misery loves company. For the longest time, it seemed that the extent of my happiness had a direct correlation to how quickly someone else would come along and rain on my parade. Whenever things were going right for awhile, I would get panicky wondering when the ball would drop. I almost expected it to happen. I eventually let those feelings go, and I'm much happier now. Sorry for whatever you're going through, dear. It's cliche, but things will get better. 
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That shit makes a nice bumber sticker - but cliches don't really help people out.  Here's my advice: Keep your chin up kid - just remember that when the going gets tough the tough get going.  On a more serious note - break ups are tough. Just remember it will get better, and that one day it won't matter any more. Feel free to PM me if you care to talk - I've had my share of bad breakups too, but it always gets better.
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TheWidow, what you say is so true, and even worse when the person who takes the shit is the very one who was MAKING you so happy. I don't know your situation, but I truly feel your pain. The best advice I can give is this: While some sunrises are more beautiful than others, every day there is one... if someone is blocking the view to yours, you need to move to a better vantage point. Get out of the shadow. Prayers and hugs sent. Oh, and God Bless Texas! |
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I was there, minding my own business just trying to enjoy life, then the dark clouds rolled in, I thought they were rain clouds, but indeed, it was a shit-storm. If ya need someone to listen, IM me anytime. I am so sure many on here can understand what you are feeling, and are willing to be an ear and a shoulder, no matter what the situation is. |
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