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1/12/2011 10:37:00 AM EDT
Short story:
4 year relationship with GF ended in a bad way. Its complicated. No infidelity just irreconcilable differences.
I said some things I regret in the break up. Should I apologies or let it go? What would you want?

Posted Via AR15.Com Mobile
1/12/2011 5:44:21 PM EDT
[#1]
Do the right thing. Otherwise you might feel regret that haunts you for years. And unless you wish to remain spiteful, let the lady know that she is not all that bad. Be advise, she might not take it well anyway. Just let it go. Do not get upset if she does not respond the way you think she should or hoped that she would.
1/12/2011 6:04:39 PM EDT
[#2]
Quoted:
I said some things I regret in the break up. Should I apologies or let it go? What would you want?


I'm no lady of arfcom, but the thing in red says to me that you already know what the right thing to do is. If you regret it, call her and apologize.
1/12/2011 7:35:15 PM EDT
[#3]
Tell her to:

1/12/2011 8:42:53 PM EDT
[#4]
Thanks. I will do the right thing.

Posted Via AR15.Com Mobile
1/12/2011 8:45:19 PM EDT
[#5]
If it bothers you, then let her know in some way(email, phone, ect) that you didn't really mean what you said.  
1/12/2011 9:52:09 PM EDT
[#6]
Quoted:
Do the right thing. Otherwise you might feel regret that haunts you for years. And unless you wish to remain spiteful, let the lady know that she is not all that bad. Be advise, she might not take it well anyway. Just let it go. Do not get upset if she does not respond the way you think she should or hoped that she would.


I agree, just apologize- on the condition above. And leave it at that.

It will give you peace of mind that you did your part, and you will have no regrets.
1/12/2011 10:01:27 PM EDT
[#7]
I like nice breakups. Go tell her how you feel.
1/14/2011 4:29:51 PM EDT
[#8]
Apologies were made and recieved well. I think we both feel a little better about it.

Thanks for the advice everybody.


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