Posted: 12/30/2010 9:06:18 AM EDT
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Sorry if this has been covered or if I seem like a typical guy looking to test out a girl.
I'm 21 and I'll be moving in with my gf (20) in 2 weeks. And all my guy friends seem to think this is the best idea. Try her out, you wouldnt get a car you havent test driven, you never know she might not be good in bed...blah blah blah. I dont need to hear that. I would like to propose to her in March. And I know we're both young and it might seem stupid. But I guess since I was raised by my mom, grandmother and 2 aunts...I'm old fashioned. I know we'll struggle. I know it'll be hard. But if hardships come, I want to face them with her. Seems like everyone I ask doesnt believe in teamwork anymore. So is the idea of asking her to marry me stupid? I dont want to test her out. I already know everything and I'm set. Thanks a lot -CAV |
| It's not stupid at all. Romance and chivalry are not outdated concepts. The early days of a marriage between 2 young people are financially difficult, but also a lot of fun. I got married young, and we ate a lot of mac n cheese and ramen noodles for a year or so, but we also had the time of our lives. Good luck to you. If she is the one, it will all be worth it. |
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I've been happily living in sin for over four years, but I agree... romance and chivalry are rare but not dead.
Someone posted this in a thread of mine - "Love is the condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own." Remember that, live by it, and you'll do just fine. |