Posted: 12/6/2010 9:34:51 AM EDT
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1st- I am Male (41) but I am looking for ladies opinions. If this is inappropriate, please delete
So....another thread here on WS got me thinking about flirting. I love to flirt. Absolutely love it. Making a woman smile "that smile" when she is really enjoying your company is awesome. Most of the time when I flirt, I am unconcerned with the outcome. By that I mean, I am not out to get phone numbers, find a wife, have sex, etc....I just really like to flirt. I am not dating anyone exclusively (or married) so I really think this practice is OK. I usually do not flirt if I see a ring, but I do have friends whose wives like to flirt with me-in front of their husbands. And, if the husband seems alright with it, I do flirt back, though I know it is all just for laughs. I do not see a problem with this behavior either so tell me Ladies; Do you flirt "just for fun"? is it OK if no one gets hurt? Is Flirting only to find a Mate? thanks, SMC527 |
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I'm married, not dead. I look at attractive men and under the right circumstances will flirt a little bit. I see nothing wrong with it as long as the intent is clear to both parties. I used to wait tables, and flirting is practically a requirement of the job. You just have to know when it's getting out of hand. Flirting is a good way to boost self-confidence, get to know people, and generally have a good time.
**YMMV. The opinions expressed in this post do not necessarily reflect those of all women. This post does not constitute medical or legal advice. Be sure to check with your own girlfriend, wife, hook-up, or goat before acting on any internet advice. Always flirt responsibly. |
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This could sound corny, but I flirt with my husband. I like to poke fun at him or try to say things that shock him. As for flirting with others, I would personally never be able to have a clear conscience about doing that. It depends on what is said or suggested, but I think it's possibly dangerous. I also would hate the idea of my husband flirting with others.
Your flirtacious nature could be great for a marriage (if you're flirting with your spouse and having a good time with her), but you could also end up creating unnecessary temptation for yourself if you flirt with someone outside the marriage and suddenly find a real "taker." Just my $0.02. 
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This could sound corny, but I flirt with my husband. Not corny at all. If a GF will not flirt (or flirt back) with me, I do not consider her a good potential long term mate. For me, because flirting is so much fun, and if you are going to spend time with someone romantically, it should be filled with the fun of flirting. the married couples that I know who still (after 16-20 yrs) flirt with each other are the happiest ones |
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I flirt sometimes. Never anything suggestive or anything that can be taken the wrong way. I'm a happily committed spud. Someone on here posted once "Don't say or do anything that you couldn't say or do in front of your SO". Thats the best rule of thumb. Generally flirting is harmless and friendly. But if you're ever saying or doing somehting you wouldn't do in front of their other half, or wouldn't like done with your other half, then you know your over the line Keep your audience in mind also. The stranger who doesn't know your mannerisms and humor may not take to kindly. Nor the couple that has trust or insecurity issues. And I don't know any man on the range that would take very kindly to an 'accidential' arm brush and a wink.... 
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Nobody flirts with me anymore... i have a sad...   Whatcha wearin'?Cargos and a hoodie... for now... 
It's flirting....not Phone sex......  Thank you, thank you......I'll be here all week.....don't forget to tip your waitstaff
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