Posted: 4/26/2010 7:51:04 PM EDT
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Just found out I had been seeing some chick kinda online... More like a booty call... She calls me crying saying she hates me...
Now she was with 13 guys WHILE she was with me... Why do I feel like shit for being with 1 AFTER we split up? bah... |
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Just found out I had been seeing some chick kinda online... More like a booty call... She calls me crying saying she hates me... Now she was with 13 guys WHILE she was with me... Why do I feel like shit for being with 1 AFTER we split up? bah... If I am reading this right, why should you care what your ex says anyway? Steve |
| You feel like Sh*t because you care that she is hurt. I know you guys are done but she is your ex and was a part of your life. You may still care for her feelings whether you admit it or not. But don't let her suck you back in if she cant treat you right. Go on with your life and try to forget what she did to you. |
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meh I have wrote about her and I on here enough, so long story short, 3 year relationship, she was with 13 guys. my son may not be mine.
I decide we should move to TX so she can be closer to her family and so we can start over. she cheats 2 more times then get's all uppity and breaks it off with me. 3 months later I was gettin some from a chick, my ex found out and went bat shit crazy on me... she can still make me feel about |––| that big with out even trying... I just wish I could be a asshole and be cold and calloused towards her. UGH!!!!!!! |
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Just found out I had been seeing some chick kinda online... More like a booty call... She calls me crying saying she hates me... Now she was with 13 guys WHILE she was with me... Why do I feel like shit for being with 1 AFTER we split up? bah... because she is a sociopath and is using you, or trying to use you like she used to. Don't let her. |
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Quoted: I don't see that working well, seeing as most the few women who are here are involved with other members here...What cant i meet an arfcom kind of woman... Fun loving, laid back, well armed... Hmmm.... "ARFmatch.com" smells like new forum material to me  Sorry to hear about the deal with your ex, but why is it that you say your son may not be yours? Why not get a DNA test done right away - then if you aren't the father your ex won't have anything to hold over your head and you can choose to see him if you want? |
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meh I have wrote about her and I on here enough, so long story short, 3 year relationship, she was with 13 guys. my son may not be mine. I decide we should move to TX so she can be closer to her family and so we can start over. she cheats 2 more times then get's all uppity and breaks it off with me. 3 months later I was gettin some from a chick, my ex found out and went bat shit crazy on me... she can still make me feel about |––| that big with out even trying... I just wish I could be a asshole and be cold and calloused towards her. UGH!!!!!!! You need to stop loving her and start getting angry. Doesn't it piss you off that she cuckolded you? That she hijacked 3 years of your life, victimized you, and to top it off, may have had some other guy's baby and tried to pass it off as yours? For fucks sake, what the hell is wrong with you? How can you love a person like that? This woman has had more semen in her than a fucking sperm bank, and you allow her to make you feel anything? Honestly man, I'm not trying to be a prick, but you will not heal and go on with your life until you rage a bit. This will give you closure, and allow you to distance yourself. Then, finally, you can move on with your life. I'm not trying to be funny, or hateful. I'm telling you the truth. Take it as you will. |
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meh I have wrote about her and I on here enough, so long story short, 3 year relationship, she was with 13 guys. my son may not be mine. I decide we should move to TX so she can be closer to her family and so we can start over. she cheats 2 more times then get's all uppity and breaks it off with me. 3 months later I was gettin some from a chick, my ex found out and went bat shit crazy on me... she can still make me feel about |––| that big with out even trying... I just wish I could be a asshole and be cold and calloused towards her. UGH!!!!!!! You need to stop loving her and start getting angry. Doesn't it piss you off that she cuckolded you? That she hijacked 3 years of your life, victimized you, and to top it off, may have had some other guy's baby and tried to pass it off as yours? For fucks sake, what the hell is wrong with you? How can you love a person like that? This woman has had more semen in her than a fucking sperm bank, and you allow her to make you feel anything? Honestly man, I'm not trying to be a prick, but you will not heal and go on with your life until you rage a bit. This will give you closure, and allow you to distance yourself. Then, finally, you can move on with your life. I'm not trying to be funny, or hateful. I'm telling you the truth. Take it as you will. Been through something similar? What's funny is sometimes its the littlest thing that will totally change your feelings about a situation... like just recently my ex told me she had feelings for yet another new Guy. But went on to tell me how she really wanted to be with me... one thing leads to another and BOOM!!! ALL I CAN PICTURE IS SOME OTHER GUYS NUT POURING OUT OF HER!!!!and suddenly I felt total closure and no remorse or sadness.... more disgust and anger... So thanks for that Vul, guess that was the trigger I needed... that wonderful mental image. LOL I love me some ARF folks 
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