Posted: 5/12/2013 4:12:50 PM EDT
| short story my gf after 6 years we broke up and she is going crazy and now today shes saying she wants my laptop she bought me 2 years ago as a gift and for doing alot of work to her car she still owes a couple hundred dollars on it and saying she wants it back or she is going to hire a lawyer and go after it that way. she has never used it or has anything on it . any help would be greatly appreciated |
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Has she acknowledged in any form of writing that it was a gift? Even if its a text message, she pretty much torpedoed her case for retrieving it.
She's bluffing. If she's making payments on a 2 year old laptop, she doesn't have the money to hire a lawyer. Not to mention the cost to pursue this will far outstretch the cost of 2 laptops. |
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Has she acknowledged in any form of writing that it was a gift? Even if its a text message, she pretty much torpedoed her case for retrieving it. She's bluffing. If she's making payments on a 2 year old laptop, she doesn't have the money to hire a lawyer. Not to mention the cost to pursue this will far outstretch the cost of 2 laptops. This unless she has a new sugar daddy or momma. |
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Has she acknowledged in any form of writing that it was a gift? Even if its a text message, she pretty much torpedoed her case for retrieving it. She's bluffing. If she's making payments on a 2 year old laptop, she doesn't have the money to hire a lawyer. Not to mention the cost to pursue this will far outstretch the cost of 2 laptops. This unless she has a new sugar daddy or momma. If that were the case why would she care? |
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Has she acknowledged in any form of writing that it was a gift? Even if its a text message, she pretty much torpedoed her case for retrieving it. She's bluffing. If she's making payments on a 2 year old laptop, she doesn't have the money to hire a lawyer. Not to mention the cost to pursue this will far outstretch the cost of 2 laptops. This unless she has a new sugar daddy or momma. If that were the case why would she care? She's a spiteful bitch? |
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Has she acknowledged in any form of writing that it was a gift? Even if its a text message, she pretty much torpedoed her case for retrieving it. She's bluffing. If she's making payments on a 2 year old laptop, she doesn't have the money to hire a lawyer. Not to mention the cost to pursue this will far outstretch the cost of 2 laptops. This unless she has a new sugar daddy or momma. If that were the case why would she care? She's a spiteful bitch? That's a given. It's more likely she's a spiteful bitch that's hasn't moved on... |
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Take the easy road and give the thing back and be done with her. Is a laptop worth all the drama, threats, and BS? And he needs to undo all the repairs he did on her car to make it fair. All giving it back is going to do is make her ask for other stuff back. Cut all ties with her, answer no calls and delete any e mail or other electronic messages without response. |
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she has no need for it it has all my info and work stuff i have alot on here and do not want to give it back . just trying to figure out the legal aspect of it Copy all your data to an external drive (important data should be backed up anyway), wipe it, give it back. Laptops are cheap. |
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short story my gf after 6 years we broke up and she is going crazy and now today shes saying she wants my laptop she bought me 2 years ago as a gift and for doing alot of work to her car she still owes a couple hundred dollars on it and saying she wants it back or she is going to hire a lawyer and go after it that way. she has never used it or has anything on it . any help would be greatly appreciated Legally, it may be that the laptop is yours and she has no legal case to make. However, laptops are cheap. If you can give away a laptop in exchange for a "crazy" (your term) person no longer bothering you, it is probably in your best interest to give away the laptop. |
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Hire an attorney? she obviously has not checked into the cost of attorney's. Sounds like a bluff. Your call.
Over my career as an LEO I was threatened thousands of time to be sued. At first it bugged me. After I realized it was BS , I laughed at them and asked if I could recommend an attorney to them . You can guess how many suits were filed =0 Get on with your life. choose your women wisely grasshopper....... |
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I gotta agree with the others ... Even if it was a gift just copy what u need to an external hd... Wipe the machine of everything... And if you're nice give it to her without any accidental damage or internal wires disconnected.
If you keep it she'll use it as an excuse to keep bitching at you.. Cut her loose with no ties. |
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Sounds like you need a restraining order and a new girlfriend. And a copy of this. |
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A restraining order is for domestic violence issues . A stalking order is what you need if your state issues them. " repeated and unwanted contact" was the criteria for a stalking order. |