Posted: 9/7/2009 1:31:18 AM EDT
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I just cut ties with a chick that truly loved me. Problem is I didn't 'love' her. I'm pretty broken up about it but I know I did the right thing.
I'm also sick of seeing my friends. I'm thinking that taking a good month long break from them would be nice. I just want to focus on school and girls right now. I hit it off with a chick last Friday and I was considering having her over this weekend until I saw her arms. She had multiple scars on both arms from obvious self inflicted cuts  . That discovery halted my 'game' and I cordially went my own way.
Has any body taken a 'break' from their friends? I'm not quite sure what this thread is about but any responses are welcome. ETA: I'm 23. I'm not some 18 year old Muppet. I could use some real advice FWIW. |
| all the time. i don't like people that much and my good friends just deal with it I guess. sometimes if i am dealing with a depression or some shit i might not make it into town for 6-8 months. i say depression, but honestly when i am alone i am pretty happy. i just want my cabin, dog, and guns. if i need a piece of ass i go to NV and buy a knock out for a hour.... then head home to my good life. about every 3-5 years i see my family. that is it really. i like it. |
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all the time. i don't like people that much and my good friends just deal with it I guess. sometimes if i am dealing with a depression or some shit i might not make it into town for 6-8 months. i say depression, but honestly when i am alone i am pretty happy. i just want my cabin, dog, and guns. if i need a piece of ass i go to NV and buy a knock out for a hour.... then head home to my good life. about every 3-5 years i see my family. that is it really. i like it. Where (roughly) are you at in NM? |
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Run. The fuck. Away. I did my friend. It was hard but ran the fuck away. ETA: I'm beating my self up HARD though. This chick would have married me in a heartbeat and I just threw it all away. Ugh it was the right call but it hurts.  but you dont lover her you say? 
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Run. The fuck. Away. I did my friend. It was hard but ran the fuck away. ETA: I'm beating my self up HARD though. This chick would have married me in a heartbeat and I just threw it all away. Ugh it was the right call but it hurts. but you don't lover her you say? Don't get me started.... I DO love her but I don't want things to work out with her. It's messed up but that's how I feel. I really care about her but I DON'T want things to work out. It might be selfish but I see myself progressing WAY beyond her career wise. It's fucked up but I want to be able to pursue a career without strings for at least the next five years. I'm learning Chinese and I plan on getting a Masters. I don't need to deal with bull shit relationships right now. I'm open to relationships but only if they're on my level. Am I shooting way to high? |
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I just cut ties with a chick that truly loved me. Problem is I didn't 'love' her. I'm pretty broken up about it but I know I did the right thing. I'm also sick of seeing my friends. I'm thinking that taking a good month long break from them would be nice. I just want to focus on school and girls right now. I hit it off with a chick last Friday and I was considering having her over this weekend until I saw her arms. She had multiple scars on both arms from obvious self inflicted cuts . That discovery halted my 'game' and I cordially went my own way.
Has any body taken a 'break' from their friends? I'm not quite sure what this thread is about but any responses are welcome. ETA: I'm 23. I'm not some 18 year old Muppet. I could use some real advice FWIW. I disowned all of them that voted for Obama. |
| As I recently told my younger brother who isn't much older than you, the only person who know what is best for you is you. Everyone else has an opinion, but their opinion is based only on the little bit they see of the situation whereas you have all the facts. Trust in yourself and what you feel. If solitude is what you need, your friends will most likely understand and give you some space until you are ready to have them around. |