Posted: 1/29/2002 5:31:43 PM EDT
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Well after 71 days of hurt, anger, depression, fear, anxiety, melancholia and whatever else you go through during a divorce I can almost see the proverbial light at the end......... Got a court date set for next Wednesday. It seems that no matter how obliging, punctual and agreeable I was that my wife turned into a mega-bitch just the same. Crap, I filed, quit-claimed and moved out all within the same 3 day period and she still modified the %^&%$&*^%# marital dissolution agreement 2X. Even tried for a third and "our" attorney told her enough was enough. I don't know about the rest of you guys but all of my missing her, all the self-evaluations from front to back and back again, all the bad dreams, all the lack of intimacy/etc etc just seemed to whither away as she showed more and more of her true colors. Now, although I still think it was totally avoidable, it is easy to see how much better off I am gonna be. On with my life as they say........... |
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71 days? You are so lucky! Mine took 928 days. All of it pure misery. What ever you do, DO NOT get involved in a serious relationship. Go out and have some fun, date, have sex, whatever... Just don't get serious. Oh yeah, dont forget to pray to whatever God you pray to. Thank him/her/it because you now are able to make another choice in the future. Have a good one. Joshua |
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Yeh! Been here, done that, t-shirt to prove it! It seems to me that for all our bravura and macho crap, it's we guys who are the romantics and the women are the true realists – if you think about it, they have gotta be! This happened to me 17 years ago. A year later, I met my second wife – and it's been great ever since. It really ain't as bad bad as you might think right now. Good luck, X-Kill |
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It seems like an overwhelmingly number of us have had failed marriages, myself included. Are we that hard to live with or is it that women in general want a man who is submissive to them and we are the type of guys who won't take that sh!t. Good luck X-kill, I know what is feels like to have to go back on forth on the separation papers, my ex wants to be able to see the damn dog once a month!!! This is the dog she clubbed with a golf club, gezzzzzz. |