Posted: 1/23/2009 1:52:40 PM EDT
| I have to have a SS card for my son for the Navy, should be no biggy right? Well, it is. His birth cert is not identification enough that im his dad, so Ill need shot records or something along those lines. Problem is, he lives in utah and his mother will NOT help me in anyway. So, anyone know of some other way I might be able to get a SS for my son?? |
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I have to have a SS card for my son for the Navy, should be no biggy right? Well, it is. His birth cert is not identification enough that im his dad, so Ill need shot records or something along those lines. Problem is, he lives in utah and his mother will NOT help me in anyway. So, anyone know of some other way I might be able to get a SS for my son?? It should be in any court paperwork. |
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I have to have a SS card for my son for the Navy, should be no biggy right? Well, it is. His birth cert is not identification enough that im his dad, so Ill need shot records or something along those lines. Problem is, he lives in utah and his mother will NOT help me in anyway. So, anyone know of some other way I might be able to get a SS for my son?? Why do you have to prove you are his dad ? If he is old enough to go in the Navy, he should be able to take care of this stuff himself. |
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I have to have a SS card for my son for the Navy, should be no biggy right? Well, it is. His birth cert is not identification enough that im his dad, so Ill need shot records or something along those lines. Problem is, he lives in utah and his mother will NOT help me in anyway. So, anyone know of some other way I might be able to get a SS for my son?? Why do you have to prove you are his dad ? If he is old enough to go in the Navy, he should be able to take care of this stuff himself. I believe he is a dependent and the Dad is in the Navy. |
| I have to have this for the Navy, some new change that they have to have the BC AND the SS card... Annd his mother wont help cause she is a bitch... SHe knows what it is for and doesnt care.. She doesnt want me in his life period.. But im not worried about that now.... |
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I have to have a SS card for my son for the Navy, should be no biggy right? Well, it is. His birth cert is not identification enough that im his dad, so Ill need shot records or something along those lines. Problem is, he lives in utah and his mother will NOT help me in anyway. So, anyone know of some other way I might be able to get a SS for my son?? Why do you have to prove you are his dad ? If he is old enough to go in the Navy, he should be able to take care of this stuff himself. Im trying to get intot he Navy, my son is 7 |
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Do you have any kind of legal custody, is your name on the Birth Cert. Son would have had a SSN assigned to him at birth. It's not hard for a parent on the Birth Cert to get the SSN. All you need is the Cert and go to the nearest Fed admin Bldg.
If you're not on the Birth Cert, not the father, have no custodial rights and pay no child support then you're trollin because this is a pretty dumb thing, or, you failed to man up to begin with and she has someone worth a damn acting as his father. |
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Do you have any kind of legal custody, is your name on the Birth Cert. Son would have had a SSN assigned to him at birth. It's not hard for a parent on the Birth Cert to get the SSN. All you need is the Cert and go to the nearest Fed admin Bldg. If you're not on the Birth Cert, not the father, have no custodial rights and pay no child support then you're trollin because this is a pretty dumb thing, or, you failed to man up to begin with and she has someone worth a damn acting as his father. I HAVE the BC, it has my name, her name and his, they will not accept it |
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Do you have any kind of legal custody, is your name on the Birth Cert. Son would have had a SSN assigned to him at birth. It's not hard for a parent on the Birth Cert to get the SSN. All you need is the Cert and go to the nearest Fed admin Bldg. If you're not on the Birth Cert, not the father, have no custodial rights and pay no child support then you're trollin because this is a pretty dumb thing, or, you failed to man up to begin with and she has someone worth a damn acting as his father. I HAVE the BC, it has my name, her name and his, they will not accept it Who are these "they" that won't accept it? Demand to see the regulation/rule that says that your picture ID and your son's BC (with your name on it) isn't "good enough". Get ahold of the SS Administration and find out what the procedures are for a new SS card to be issued. Call your congressman/senator. Call the JAG. It sounds like some petty bureaucrat has got a bug up their ass. |
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Do you have any kind of legal custody, is your name on the Birth Cert. Son would have had a SSN assigned to him at birth. It's not hard for a parent on the Birth Cert to get the SSN. All you need is the Cert and go to the nearest Fed admin Bldg. If you're not on the Birth Cert, not the father, have no custodial rights and pay no child support then you're trollin because this is a pretty dumb thing, or, you failed to man up to begin with and she has someone worth a damn acting as his father. I HAVE the BC, it has my name, her name and his, they will not accept it Who are these "they" that won't accept it? Demand to see the regulation/rule that says that your picture ID and your son's BC (with your name on it) isn't "good enough". Get ahold of the SS Administration and find out what the procedures are for a new SS card to be issued. Call your congressman/senator. Call the JAG. It sounds like some petty bureaucrat has got a bug up their ass. This has been told to me from 2 different SSA offices, thats what screwed up. I can prove who I am, and his BC, SHOULD be enough  
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I believe the birth certificate (as with a passport application) must be a certified record of birth, not the one from the hospital but the one from the State records, usually with a seal etc.
Social Security Number for a U.S.-Born Citizen Child (never had a number) Regardless of age, anyone physically and mentally capable may sign an Application For A Social Security Card. To apply for a Social Security number: Complete an Application For A Social Security Card (Form SS-5); and Show us documents proving your child’s: U.S. citizenship; Age; and Identity. Show us proof of your identity. Take your completed application and original documents to your local Social Security office. Anyone age 12 or older requesting an original Social Security number card must appear for an interview at a Social Security office. Social Security must verify a birth record for all U.S.-born applicants who apply for an original Social Security number. An exception is made for a parent who applies for a baby’s Social Security number at the hospital when the baby is born. To verify a birth record, Social Security will contact the office that issued it. Adoption: We can assign your adopted child a number before the adoption is complete, but you may want to wait. Then, you can apply for the number using your child’s new name. If you want to claim your child for tax purposes while the adoption is still pending, contact the Internal Revenue Service for Form W-7A, Application for Taxpayer Identification Number for Pending U.S. Adoptions. For more information, see Social Security Numbers For Children (Publication No. 05-10023). Citizenship We can accept only certain documents as proof of U.S. citizenship. These include a U.S. birth certificate, U.S. consular report of birth, U.S. passport, Certificate of Naturalization or Certificate of Citizenship. Age You must present your child’s birth certificate if you have it or can easily obtain it. If not, we can consider other documents, such as your child’s passport to prove age. Identity Your child: We can accept only certain documents as proof of your child’s identity. An acceptable document must be current (not expired) and show your child’s name, identifying information and preferably a recent photograph. We generally can accept a non-photo identity document if it has enough information to identify the child (such as the child’s name and age, date of birth or parents’ names). We prefer to see the child’s U.S. passport. If that document is not available, we may accept the child’s: Adoption decree; Doctor, clinic or hospital record; Religious record (e.g., baptismal record); Daycare center or school record; or School identification card. You: We also must see proof of your identity. An acceptable document must be current (not expired) and show your name, identifying information (date of birth or age) and preferably a recent photograph. For example, as proof of identity Social Security must see your: U.S. driver’s license; State-issued nondriver identification card; or U.S. passport. If you do not have one of these specific documents or you cannot get a replacement for one of them within 10 days, we will ask to see other documents, including: Employee ID card; School ID card; Health insurance card (not a Medicare card); or U.S. military ID card. We may use one document for two purposes. For example, we may use your U.S. passport as proof of both citizenship and identity. However, you must provide at least two separate documents. All documents must be either originals or copies certified by the issuing agency. We cannot accept photocopies or notarized copies of documents. We will mail your child’s card as soon as we have all of your child’s information and have verified your child's documents. Keep your child's Social Security card in a safe place. It is an important document. Do not carry it with you. |
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-snip- Thats the thing, they will NOT accept just the BC, they want some records (like listed) which his mother is unwilling to help me get. And since i dont know what school/or doctor he goes to, I dont know what to do... Why im here trying to find some other way... |
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FL, what you most likely have is a non-certified COPY of the Birth Cert, not a valid acceptable one. What you need to do is get a certified copy from city hall or wherever the original was filed. If you were a Liberal and running for President your GTG. I hope everything works out for you. |
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tag for the soap opera coming  AGAIN!! YOU DONT FUCKING LIKE MY THREADS STAY THE FUCK OUT!!! Im TRYING to get shit straight so i can fucking join.. GTFO!! dude, chill out...didn't you notice my smiley face...damn!!! Sorry, just to many people shit in my threads cause it's my thread |
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FL, what you most likely have is a non-certified COPY of the Birth Cert, not a valid acceptable one. What you need to do is get a certified copy from city hall or wherever the original was filed. It is a certified copy.. Picked it up Wendsday. Damn thing cost my recruiter $23 
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I see your problem. They need the equiv. of a DL for him. School ID, school records of some sort, doctor records.
Call the school in Utah. Tell them your problem. Shouldn't be that hard to get records sent directly to the Social Security office re your son's case. Try the doctor if you have the name. |
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I guess you don't pay taxes either..... his SS# would be listed on there and would easily be more reliable than any shot records. I need the CARD to make a copy of it, i have his number, thats not good enough for the mill Sorry, missread. im calling them monday and see if they will accept that... |
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Call the school in Utah. Tell them your problem. Shouldn't be that hard to get records sent directly to the Social Security office re your son's case. I dont know what school he goes to (I just found out he goes to private school, but dont know where).. But will be making calls monday to see if i can find out which by calling them all |
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Whatever you do, don't go to the office in San Francisco. Social Security Administration.
What a place. I got to come here because my Social Security Card got stolen a while ago. Social Security Administration own by our Government. Man, what a mess. i think that all of tourist should come here to see what is the real America. When I was in a line. This is what I saw. There was an old lookin' black man who has almost no teeth, about 6 foot height had incredibly smelly-dirty curly long hair with a cowboy hat, black shirt, black baggy jeans and cowboy boots turned around to the front door and said OUT LOUD, "HEY, BITCH, I'm over here! Getin here, Bitch!" a caucasian lady out side shouted back to him something. I don't want to describe how was she looks. Imagine an equivalent. The black man said loud, "YouFXXXin'CXXX, Get your Fatass in here NOW, you HEAR ME Bitch?" The lady shouted something again and tried to go threw the detector and beeped. She said, "WHATTHEFXXX?" The black man laughed at her and shouted, " She got a gun!!" Every one in the room looked at the detector, some one ducked. The lady was so angry and said, "ShuttheFXXXUPyouMUZAFXXXER, I ain't got a gun!" .............. there was a bit more things going on and two police officer came VERY SOON and they took both of them away. I was like, "WHATTHEFXXX?" and thinking at the same time, "I would love to take the whole scene in video!". I saw 3 people were taken away by police while I was in the line about 3 hours. While I was in the line, I played to see how many "NORMAL" people in here except the officers. In the room, about 60 people, 9 am. It was pretty easy to count "NORMAL' people. I counted ...6, I realized that you can tell by just lookin' around, normal people wear and act pretty NORMAL! It is very depressing place. Maybe the most depressing place in the city. I was depressing when I was in the traffic court room with MANY of Latino people were driving without driver's license and the insurance. But, People work here are incredibly PATIENT to any one who needs attention and becoming SO ANNOYED ANXIOUS and some one really gets SO angry. I would give 5 star for the people work here though, because, who wants the job? Some one gotto do the FXXXin' job. I don't mind to go back there again. Funnier than comedy. Link 
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Contact the county vital statistics bureau (it may be on-line) and find out how to apply for his birth certificate. With that in hand, then go to SSI for his card. RIF I have it, they wont accept it The Social Security Admin won't accept the birth certificate? Because that's what they require for a card..... |
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Contact the county vital statistics bureau (it may be on-line) and find out how to apply for his birth certificate. With that in hand, then go to SSI for his card. RIF I have it, they wont accept it The Social Security Admin won't accept the birth certificate? Because that's what they require for a card..... No shit right? 2 different SSA offices said they will not accept the BC.. Its a certified copy from the city office, and still no...
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Contact the county vital statistics bureau (it may be on-line) and find out how to apply for his birth certificate. With that in hand, then go to SSI for his card. RIF I have it, they wont accept it The Social Security Admin won't accept the birth certificate? Because that's what they require for a card..... No shit right? 2 different SSA offices said they will not accept the BC.. Its a certified copy from the city office, and still no... Call child protective services in Utah. Tell them the mother is preventing the child from getting benefits from the Navy and that may be harmful to the health and welfare of the kid. Women use the big hammer all the time. Use it back on her. |
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Contact the county vital statistics bureau (it may be on-line) and find out how to apply for his birth certificate. With that in hand, then go to SSI for his card. RIF I have it, they wont accept it The Social Security Admin won't accept the birth certificate? Because that's what they require for a card..... No shit right? 2 different SSA offices said they will not accept the BC.. Its a certified copy from the city office, and still no... Call child protective services in Utah. Tell them the mother is preventing the child from getting benefits from the Navy and that may be harmful to the health and welfare of the kid. Women use the big hammer all the time. Use it back on her. Ahhh, didnt think about that move |
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I have to have a SS card for my son for the Navy, should be no biggy right? Well, it is. His birth cert is not identification enough that im his dad, so Ill need shot records or something along those lines. Problem is, he lives in utah and his mother will NOT help me in anyway. So, anyone know of some other way I might be able to get a SS for my son?? Where was the Child Born, in Utah or in Texas where you are at? Did they say the BC you have is OK but they just want an SS# ? If he was born in your area then the Mom doesn't have to help, hell the Mom doesnt have to help with a SS Card, my Wife had to get a new SS Card and card, she called the SS Office and applied, it took awhile to get it but she got it so hope you are in no big hurry because it took a couple months. Maybe SS Office can issue a Printout but would that even be enough? |
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More Drama from the LLama SSDD *yawn* Welcome to GD Fuck you, again, dont liek my threads, dont fucking click on them Fuck you too. Join the Navy and keep up this amount of drama, you'll never see the end of basic. They'll toss your Drama Llama ass out, or, your fellow recruits will beat your ass to a pulp at 3am in the head since they will be sick of your incessant public airings of your soap opera life. - kinda like we are. The Navy doesn't want attention queens, they want MEN. (USA-AW5, 77-82) How the FUCK is this drama? Im trying to find a way to get something so i can fucking join? All cause of a recent 3-4 months ago) change, all you used to have was the BC. Im here seeing if anyone has any ideas on how to get this since my sons mother wont help. So either you have some good ideas, or leave my thread. That fucking simple.. So I guess since your a MAN, that makes it ok to trash people when they are lopoking for some assistance to get something done to better themnselves? If so, then I dont wanna be this so called "MAN"... |
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Was the Kid born in Texas? if so all his records should be in Texas. If he was born in another State you may be waiting for awhile, in case you haven't noticed our Gubbmint doesn't work fast. If all you need is a SS Card for your kid then contact the SS Office Over looked your first post... He was born in TX in 2001.. All I need is the SS card as I have said, but the issue is im having a hard time getting it cause i dont have anything they will take since the BC is not good enough... |
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Is it possible to join first then get the needed card? I mean, you can join now file paperwork later? That way if the wife keeps it up, a legal dept. or JAG can give her a call that will convince her.
Your situation, although different, sounds like my brother. He can't get a NYS driver license because of the rules enacted after 9/11. One main reason he can't get it is the "points" needed. Meaning SSC, BC, utility bill or CCs. He never had a CC or utility bill. |
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This is what you need according to the SS website.
Replacement Social Security Number Card for a U.S.-born Child You can replace your child’s Social Security card for free if it is lost or stolen. You are limited to three replacement cards in a year and 10 during a lifetime. Legal name changes and other exceptions do not count toward these limits. For example, changes in immigration status that require card updates may not count toward these limits. Also, you may not be affected by these limits if you can prove you need the card to prevent a significant hardship. To get a replacement card for your child, you must: * Complete an Application For A Social Security Card (Form SS-5); and * Show us documents proving your child’s: o U.S. citizenship (if your child has not already established citizenship with us); and o Identity. * Show us documents proving your identity. * Take your completed application and original documents to your local Social Security office . Citizenship We can accept only certain documents as proof of U.S. citizenship. These include a U.S. birth certificate, U.S. consular report of birth, U.S. passport, Certificate of Naturalization or Certificate of Citizenship. Identity Your child: We can accept only certain documents as proof of your child’s identity. An acceptable document must be current (not expired) and show your child’s name, identifying information (age, date of birth or parent's names) and preferably a recent photograph. We generally can accept a non-photo identity document if it has enough information to identify the child (such as the child’s name and age, date of birth or parents’ names). We prefer to see the child’s U.S. passport. If that document is not available, we may accept the child’s: * Adoption decree; * Doctor, clinic or hospital record; * Religious record (e.g., baptismal record); * Daycare center or school record; or * School identification card. You: We also must see proof of your identity. An acceptable document must be current (not expired) and show your name, identifying information (date of birth or age) and preferably a recent photograph. For example, as proof of identity Social Security must see your: * U.S. driver’s license; * State-issued nondriver identification card; or * U.S. passport. If you do not have one of these specific documents or you cannot get a replacement for one of them within 10 days, we will ask to see other documents, including: * Employee ID card; * School ID card; * Health insurance card (not a Medicare card); or * U.S. military ID card. If you are not a U.S. citizen, Social Security will ask to see a current DHS document. Acceptable documents include: * Form I-551 (includes machine-readable immigrant visa with your unexpired foreign passport); * I-94 with your unexpired foreign passport; or * Work permit card from the Department of Homeland Security (I-766 or I688B). We may use one document for two purposes. For example, we may use your U.S. passport as proof of both citizenship and identity. All documents must be either originals or copies certified by the issuing agency. We cannot accept photocopies or notarized copies of documents. We will mail your child’s card as soon as we have all of your child’s information and have verified your documents. Your child’s replacement card will have the same name and number as the previous card. Keep your child's Social Security card in a safe place. It is an important document. Do not carry it with you |
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The county of his birth will have the record. Prove your ID to them, write the check, and get a certified raised seal copy. The back-assward county in Minnesota where I was born has everything posted on the Internet. The form needs to be notarized to authenticate my ID to the notary and to witness my signature.
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The county of his birth will have the record. Prove your ID to them, write the check, and get a certified raised seal copy. The back-assward county in Minnesota where I was born has everything posted on the Internet. The form needs to be notarized to authenticate my ID to the notary and to witness my signature. A passport works for the social security people too. His SS card? i have an official (raised-seal) copy of his BC. But for the SSA that is not enough to prove anything, which is the fucked up part. It has my name, his mothers name and mine... Ill find out more come monday I hope. |
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I have to have this for the Navy, some new change that they have to have the BC AND the SS card... Annd his mother wont help cause she is a bitch... SHe knows what it is for and doesnt care.. She doesnt want me in his life period.. But im not worried about that now.... Tell her, "Until I get this, I'm going to be all up in your shit. Hand it over, and I'll be gone for months or years." |