First off, I'm thrilled that your fiancee is looking good, HiramRanger. Luckily, I can't imagine what it must be like to have something like that hanging over the head of someone that close to you.
I'm a cancer survivor.
When I was 15, I was diagnosed with Hodgkin's Disease, cancer of the lymphatic system. I got a bunch of really fun tests: upper and lower GIs, lymphangiogram, CAT scans, staging, etc. They took out a few glands from my neck, then I got radiation treatment for 4 months. As much as radiation treatment sucked, I prayed to God thanking Him that I didn't have to get chemo. On the oncology ward where I went for my treatments, I saw the folks who were taking that poison...poison that kills the cancer cells just a touch faster than it kills the patient.
I've heard a lot lately about breast cancer funds, breast cancer awareness, pink ribbons on newscasters and celebrities. There are a lot of different kinds of cancer out there. Hey, I had never heard of the lymphatic system when I was 15, let alone knew you could get cancer in it. Why is it that breast cancer gets all this attention, and so few others are ever mentioned until you get the bad news from the doctor? Is it that it's primarily a disease that affects women rather than men, and therefore some kind of "special" cause, more easily and nobly espoused than any old cancer that kills irrespective of gender?
God forbid a cancer develops that affects only gay, left-handed, right-eye-dominant Sudanese tap dancers. No other medical condition will be able to get a dime or a minute's airtime.
Again, so the real gist of this thread isn't lost, I'm very glad your fiancee is all clean HiramRanger. Give her our best.