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4/17/2007 12:10:07 AM EDT
So there is a very attractive waitress at a nice pub that I frequent.  My buddy has had a thing for her for a while, so i never thought to pursue said waitress.  Well, my buddy tried his hand (and by 'tried his hand,' I mean got her phone number but subsequently did nothing), and has yet to have luck.  He still thinks he is "working on it," but he's too much of a poontang to actually just ask her out or tell her that he likes her.  On top of that, I don't think she's into him much.

Soo.. considering the circumstances, what say Arfcom?  Would I be a total asshole for asking her out?  I think so... but my buddy knows he's not getting anywhere with her.  Would you be pissed if you were my friend?
4/17/2007 12:12:58 AM EDT
[#1]
If your buddy isn't actively pursuing her then his loss.
Snooze you lose.
Anyone can get a number. It's following up on it that matters.
4/17/2007 12:26:55 AM EDT
[#2]
Hit it and quit it
4/17/2007 1:02:55 AM EDT
[#3]
if i was trying, and a friend jumped in and took her, i'd be livid.  i've been cockblocked a couple of times...  but it turns out they were both complete skanks, so i guess my buddies took a bullet(or in this case, the crab infestation) for me.


keep in mind that your definition of "trying" and his may differ.  go for it if you don't mind losing a friend.
4/17/2007 1:11:28 AM EDT
[#4]
How is this even a question??

Tell your buddy you'd like to ask her out, since he's not getting anywhere.

Then, ask her out. You showed him respect, and then asked out your waitress.

The end.
4/17/2007 1:12:56 AM EDT
[#5]

Quoted:

Soo.. considering the circumstances, what say Arfcom?  Would I be a total asshole for asking her out?  I think so... but my buddy knows he's not getting anywhere with her.  Would you be pissed if you were my friend?


Yes to all.

Lots of girls out there, find one your friend isn't interested in.

Or at least get his blessing first.
4/17/2007 1:15:16 AM EDT
[#6]

Quoted:
How is this even a question??

Tell your buddy you'd like to ask her out, since he's not getting anywhere.

Then, ask her out. You showed him respect, and then asked out your waitress.

The end.



What he said(Above) ^

Swingset once again proves he knows what he is talking about.

4/17/2007 1:18:56 AM EDT
[#7]

Quoted:

Quoted:

Soo.. considering the circumstances, what say Arfcom?  Would I be a total asshole for asking her out?  I think so... but my buddy knows he's not getting anywhere with her.  Would you be pissed if you were my friend?


Yes to all.

Lots of girls out there, find one your friend isn't interested in.

Or at least get his blessing first.

Hey, he snoozes, he loses.

... kinda like that team that lost to the Stars.
4/17/2007 1:35:10 AM EDT
[#8]

Quoted:

... kinda like that team that lost to the Stars.


HEY!!!

They only lost in the shootout.

And the funny thing was....

All they needed was for it to GO to OT, to secure their place as the #1 team in the West.

3 more days...then my avatar is going to be all Anaheim Ducks!

uh...

what was this thread about?
4/17/2007 1:49:20 AM EDT
[#9]

Quoted:

what was this thread about?


Money shots. On the small of the back or chest?

I'm a small of the back guy myself.
4/17/2007 1:55:42 AM EDT
[#10]
You're acting just like your friend, ask her out.  
4/17/2007 2:04:36 AM EDT
[#11]

Quoted:
You're acting just like your friend, ask her out.  


I fail to see that.  I have not pursued her out of respect for my friend.  He is a great friend and I don't want to fuck him over.
4/17/2007 2:12:40 AM EDT
[#12]

Quoted:

Quoted:
You're acting just like your friend, ask her out.  


I fail to see that.  I have not pursued her out of respect for my friend.  He is a great friend and I don't want to fuck him over.


Then ask his permission. Then, no matter the outcome, you have acted honorably.

BTW, what does this have to do with money shots?

<confused>
4/17/2007 2:53:55 AM EDT
[#13]
If you got to ask if a woman prefers you over your buddy,then some one is not paying  attention! No money shots here I see!

If you don't know a woman is interested in you,then she must not be!

Good luck with that!

Bob
4/17/2007 5:18:49 AM EDT
[#14]

Quoted:

Quoted:
How is this even a question??

Tell your buddy you'd like to ask her out, since he's not getting anywhere.

Then, ask her out. You showed him respect, and then asked out your waitress.

The end.



What he said(Above) ^

Swingset once again proves he knows what he is talking about.



yep,   hes a smart old fart  
4/17/2007 5:20:29 AM EDT
[#15]
Dale Earnheart.....wall......