[ARCHIVED THREAD] - how many is too many (Page 1 of 2)
Posted: 3/4/2007 12:49:03 PM EDT
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how many guys does a girl have to "be with" before she she is considered damaged goods? I know that there are going to be a lot of opinions on this subject, but I am just looking for opinions. I say that if a girl has been with 20 guys; she is pretty dirty, but there is still a small hope for redemption, (but she must never be totaly trusted either) If she has had over 20 she can be a "friend with benifits" but nothing more. over 50 and she is only good for one nite stands, and even than its not something to admit too. |
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have a chance to hook up with a hot chick....but she has a fairly hight "count". I used to hit it a few years ago.... but than we split up, she went on a bit of a wild ride. We have been talking lately and if we end up hanging out we will probably get into some action. I am very aprehensive of having any kind of relationship with her though. |
hows that high horse? sounds like you have issues of your own to deal with before you try a woman. 
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Not my girl... , when I was hittin she was only 19 years old and still fresh only 4 guys before me.Now she is 23 years old and she has done 17 guys. I am probably gonna hit it, I just hope that I dont fall for her (she was great in the sack back than, I bet she is better now) I also know that she has never had a train pulled on her, done a double team, gangbang, or any black guys. |
I don't think anyone has a problem with the former as much as the latter. I think its an important distinction and personally ignorance in this area is welcomed, I would NEVER want to know. |
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The girl I'm with has been with only me! She is the sweetest girl I've ever met and sometimes she drives me nuts. I feel guilty though because I was a male whore for years and have been around quite a bit. Sometimes I just wish I could find a nice trashy girl with a heart of gold. C77
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The number of guys she has been with does not imply how damaged she is. Her own family genetics, environment in which she was raised, (nature & nurture) how guys treated her, etc etc etc.... are the things which cause "damage". I've dated girls who were VERY damaged before they lost their virginity. And I've been with a couple of completely undamaged girls who have been with several guys. |
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I was just thinking about something else.....I guess It matters if she was getting it raw or if she was getting it wrapped up. If a girl did 10 guys and they all finished inside her than thats pretty nasty. But if she did 15 guys and they all wrapped it up, technicly their unit's never physicaly never made contact with her insides, and as long as the rubber did not break, than she never had any deposits left in her. |
| I think a person's answer to this question depends on their views of sex. My personal opinion is that sex is a very intimate act that should be reserved for the final consumation of a very deep relationship. I prefer to date women with the same values so the number of men she's been with should be very small. |
If you are older than 18, then you have some issues you need to deal with. If you are younger, then you have some growing up to do. |
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a radio show i listen created a slut chart and its a good way to figure it out so here it goes. What you do is take the age of consent for your state (mine is 18) the you subtract there age . AGE of consent - current age = max. number of guys before there a slut so heres an example 18 - 23 = 5 so anything over 5 guys you probably don't want to settle down with the chick if its under that good for you |
Please explain the fault in my logic? I believe that it does make a difference, Oh and as far as my age... do a little math...... girl is 23 I was doing her when she was 19, this means that I was doing her 4 years ago.....sooooo if I am currently less than 18, that means I was hittin a 19 year old collage chick when I was 14.....wow ....that would make me quite a stud. But alas that is not how it went....But you are right................I have an "issue to deal with" do I go and "hangout" with the girl? or do I play it smart and not "hangout" with the girl....? |
Part of it is the graphic language, IMHO, bro. That's pretty nasty. Plus, I don't think your "math" analogy is working out as you would have hoped. It doesn't matter what your age vs. hers is, I believe we're talking about the overall number of intimate encounters I think you have to ask yourself the same question as the OT. How many would make YOU a slut? |
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I would never stick my most valued asset into any guy....no matter how many or how few partners he has had
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As far as the 19-14 thing, who knows, maybe she wants to be a school teacher. As to the fault in your logic, you were basing your choice on whether or not to sleep with this girl on how many partners she has had, and now on the number that left ejaculate in her. If your concern about other men is because of disease then don't do anything until you are both tested. If it is to try to justify that since their penis didn't actually make contact with the skin of her vagina she has not really had sex with those men so she falls within your imagined "too many" limit, then that is just ridiculous. If you want to be with the girl, then be with her. If you think it's not smart to be with her because of the number of past relationships and the consequences of other men's sperm, then the answer to your original question can only be zero. Is she trying to figure out whether or not you have been with too many women? |
For the record, I know several women in their 50s that are smoking hot, and if I was single, I'd be all over them. |
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Well, I have always thought that droping a load in a girl is a way of either showing true love....or a way of showing disrespect. I guess I just consider a girl who always insists on protection to be smarter and more self respecting than a girl who just lets guys hit it raw and deposit their fluids inside the "holyest of holy's There is no magic number for guys, we can basicly do whatever we want as long as we do not catch any type of nasty issue "down there". Although guys can and should be harrased without mercy for doing fat girls, or ugly girls....or dirty girls. |